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No More Free Formula in Hospitals Is Best for All Moms

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Posted by Michele Zipp
on April 10, 2012 at 11:06 AM

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If you have your baby in a hospital, there are many ways the scenario will play out. But one thing is almost always certain -- you will have access to free formula. Lots of it. Even if you are nursing and baby has that sticker on the little rolling crib that says "I'm a breastfed baby." Now I wasn't always sold on the idea that this is a bad thing. If a mama is formula feeding, why not be able to get a whole bunch of expensive formula courtesy of the hospital where you (or your insurance) spent a whole lot of money to have a baby there? Makes perfect sense. But then I started thinking some more.

Those formula companies who place their products in hospitals ... do they have an ulterior motive? And, most worrisome, for the mom who really wants to breastfeed, those first moments and days are very important, and if formula is there to tempt her to just let the nurses feed the baby, it can derail her breastfeeding efforts.

There is much more to it than just some free stuff.

Dozens of health and consumer organizations are sending letters to hospitals around the country demanding that they stop giving out free formula supplied to them by the formula companies. They believe it's like an endorsement for the formula and can halt a mom's breastfeeding success. I agree. Some hospitals have already ended the free formula deal and and many are calling themselves "Baby Friendly" and helping moms breastfeed. This is what we need everywhere.

Way back when my mother had me, people actually believed that formula was better for baby than breastmilk. We all know that isn't true unless of course mom is hooked on drugs and baby shouldn't be anywhere near her breastmilk. But this was was preached to consumers by formula companies and the medical community who just weren't up to speed with their research.

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I'm sorry but the natural milk you produce to feed your baby just isn't as good as this artificial stuff we put together in a factory. Wow. Could you imagine if someone told you that today? Mama knows best -- and mama makes the best milk. We know this now. This is fact.

New moms are also more vulnerable when in a hospital setting. At least I think so. Just going through labor or a frightening delivery by c-section, you are healing and learning your way through those first moments of motherhood. You have all these nurses around you, food delivered, fresh water given just by ringing a bell. And if you are tired (which you most likely will be) and the temptation of formula is right there to feed baby instead of your breast, you may take it. It's like giving a crying child what she wants even if she shouldn't have it. And yes, it's easier to go that route, but once you get home, there is no more bell to ring for water. No more meals delivered, no nurse to mix up formula and feed your baby for you. If you started in the hospital as a mom who wanted to breastfeed but used the formula because it was easier, the reality sets in when you get home and there are piles of bottles with all of their parts to wash.

Breastfeeding isn't easy. But it is worth it for so many reasons. And ease of use is one of them. When you are really tired once you are home and baby wants to eat, breastfeeding is easier than making a bottle of formula. We don't have to get into the benefits for baby's health and mama's health because we all know them by now, but let's just say it surpasses what you can get in a bottle any day.

This isn't about bashing formula. Because I think it's fantastic and I both breastfed and formula fed my twins. This is about giving a mom who wants to breastfeed the best shot at succeeding. This is about helping her most in the beginning when she needs that support the most. This is about what's best for mom and baby. Because we all deserve the best -- or at least the best shot at trying.

What do you think of an all-out ban of free formula in hospitals?

 

by on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:12 PM
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Mackenzie40
by Member on Apr. 12, 2012 at 8:29 PM
So if hospital you delivered in did not suppy formula , would you have breast fed?

Am i the only one who finds it insulting that some people think free formula or the absence of it will sway a mom?u


Quoting MeTaL_MoMmA_08:

Glad I'm not having another kid and this isn't an issue.. I don't regret formula-feeding dd one bit.
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FromAtoZ
by AllieCat on Apr. 12, 2012 at 9:05 PM
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Quoting Mackenzie40:

I am a breast feeding mom and i think its insulting to treatwomen as if having artifical milk around or not having it aroind will be what sways them . Ridiculous.

It does sound rather ridiculous.

If a woman is swayed that easily she could not have been hard fast in her decision to begin with.  I get the feeling, reading what the OP has to say, that she feels many women are weak and cannot dare be tempted.  That isn't saying much for women.

"A bird doesn't sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song." ~ Maya Angelou

FromAtoZ
by AllieCat on Apr. 12, 2012 at 9:05 PM


Quoting Mackenzie40:

So if hospital you delivered in did not suppy formula , would you have breast fed?

Am i the only one who finds it insulting that some people think free formula or the absence of it will sway a mom?u


Quoting MeTaL_MoMmA_08:

Glad I'm not having another kid and this isn't an issue.. I don't regret formula-feeding dd one bit.

No, you are not the only one.

"A bird doesn't sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song." ~ Maya Angelou

Mackenzie40
by Member on Apr. 12, 2012 at 9:44 PM
I would go as far as to say its best for most . But i am pro choice and want all moms/people to make their own choice and I support them in being in the best position to know whats best for themselves and their children.

Quoting disneymom2two:

I wouldn't support a ban on free formula in hospitals and I disagree that it's best for all moms.  I formula fed my son.  Whether I did so because I couldn't breast feed or because I didn't want to is no one's business but mine.  The bottom line is that I formula fed and yes, I did find those free samples handy.  The hospital I delivered at was definitely pro breastfeeding.

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Tanya93
by on Apr. 12, 2012 at 10:36 PM
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ggroover
by Member on Apr. 12, 2012 at 11:08 PM

Except that to a lot of formula feeding moms that free formula is a blessing because formula is expensive. So it isn't fair to favor breastfeeding moms. What if there is a mom in there who really needs it?

aimeerd
by Member on Apr. 12, 2012 at 11:24 PM

I got formula samples when my son was born and did not given them to my son becasue I was going to breast feed him. I kept them just in case I ever needed them but after we were established I had no need for them.  I do think mothers should be encouraged to breastfeed but not pressured  or made to feel like they are bad moms if its something they do not want to or can not do. Same with mother who BF they should not be pressured in to giving there babies formula and made to feel like they are starving them when they can not get the infant to latch on. It takes time for both mother and infant to get the hang of it and for nipples to get use to it as well. I do think it would be cool to have different bags with samples for FF and BF.  I think having the samples banned is stupid and not really worth all this. I think as long as the child is getting feed who care if its from Breast/ breast milk bottle or formula.

MeTaL_MoMmA_08
by on Apr. 13, 2012 at 9:05 AM
Quoting Mackenzie40:




No. Even if they hadn't supplied the formula, I still would've FF'ed.
And I'm with you, it is pretty insulting. Like we can't just make up our own minds??
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