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No More Free Formula in Hospitals Is Best for All Moms

Posted by on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:12 PM
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Posted by Michele Zipp
on April 10, 2012 at 11:06 AM

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If you have your baby in a hospital, there are many ways the scenario will play out. But one thing is almost always certain -- you will have access to free formula. Lots of it. Even if you are nursing and baby has that sticker on the little rolling crib that says "I'm a breastfed baby." Now I wasn't always sold on the idea that this is a bad thing. If a mama is formula feeding, why not be able to get a whole bunch of expensive formula courtesy of the hospital where you (or your insurance) spent a whole lot of money to have a baby there? Makes perfect sense. But then I started thinking some more.

Those formula companies who place their products in hospitals ... do they have an ulterior motive? And, most worrisome, for the mom who really wants to breastfeed, those first moments and days are very important, and if formula is there to tempt her to just let the nurses feed the baby, it can derail her breastfeeding efforts.

There is much more to it than just some free stuff.

Dozens of health and consumer organizations are sending letters to hospitals around the country demanding that they stop giving out free formula supplied to them by the formula companies. They believe it's like an endorsement for the formula and can halt a mom's breastfeeding success. I agree. Some hospitals have already ended the free formula deal and and many are calling themselves "Baby Friendly" and helping moms breastfeed. This is what we need everywhere.

Way back when my mother had me, people actually believed that formula was better for baby than breastmilk. We all know that isn't true unless of course mom is hooked on drugs and baby shouldn't be anywhere near her breastmilk. But this was was preached to consumers by formula companies and the medical community who just weren't up to speed with their research.

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I'm sorry but the natural milk you produce to feed your baby just isn't as good as this artificial stuff we put together in a factory. Wow. Could you imagine if someone told you that today? Mama knows best -- and mama makes the best milk. We know this now. This is fact.

New moms are also more vulnerable when in a hospital setting. At least I think so. Just going through labor or a frightening delivery by c-section, you are healing and learning your way through those first moments of motherhood. You have all these nurses around you, food delivered, fresh water given just by ringing a bell. And if you are tired (which you most likely will be) and the temptation of formula is right there to feed baby instead of your breast, you may take it. It's like giving a crying child what she wants even if she shouldn't have it. And yes, it's easier to go that route, but once you get home, there is no more bell to ring for water. No more meals delivered, no nurse to mix up formula and feed your baby for you. If you started in the hospital as a mom who wanted to breastfeed but used the formula because it was easier, the reality sets in when you get home and there are piles of bottles with all of their parts to wash.

Breastfeeding isn't easy. But it is worth it for so many reasons. And ease of use is one of them. When you are really tired once you are home and baby wants to eat, breastfeeding is easier than making a bottle of formula. We don't have to get into the benefits for baby's health and mama's health because we all know them by now, but let's just say it surpasses what you can get in a bottle any day.

This isn't about bashing formula. Because I think it's fantastic and I both breastfed and formula fed my twins. This is about giving a mom who wants to breastfeed the best shot at succeeding. This is about helping her most in the beginning when she needs that support the most. This is about what's best for mom and baby. Because we all deserve the best -- or at least the best shot at trying.

What do you think of an all-out ban of free formula in hospitals?

 

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UpSheRises
by Platinum Member on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:26 PM
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The two hospitals that birth the most babies in my local area have been breast feeding friendly for over a year. No free formula, not diaper bag filled with coupons, but all the lanolin you want. I'm glad.

romalove
by Roma on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:28 PM
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I am glad my childbirthing is over.
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Tanya93
by on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:31 PM
Except that isn't happening thank goodness
UpSheRises
by Platinum Member on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:33 PM


Quoting Tanya93:

Except that isn't happening thank goodness

It did at my hospital.

FromAtoZ
by AllieCat on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:34 PM
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We did this yesterday, I think.  It may very well be a new article??

I am glad to hear this isn't happening here.  Granted, I am long done with children but my children aren't.

I feel sorry for women who cannot BF.  No doubt some will make them feel less worthy of being a mother.  That is a shame.  

AlmostFamous
by on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:38 PM
When My YDD was born, I remember the nurses constantly offering me formula. They'd say things like "if you want more sleep I'll be happy to give the baby a bottle tonight", and when I was having latching trouble they'd say that I need to supplement, this was all in the first two days after DD was born, I told them no. But it was a much dif experience than my ODD birth, they sent the lactation consultant right in with her, different hospital though.
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Tanya93
by on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:38 PM
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Quoting UpSheRises:





Goody for you. Why can't my friend that had her boobs removed at 26 because of cancer not be able to get free samples after she had a child?


Yeah, too many busybodies
paganbaby
by Teflon Don on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:43 PM

That's great!

My hospital so was not baby friendly. In fact I was almost kicked out because I refused to cover while nursing my hurt 1 1/2yo in the emergency room. The only reaon they backed off was because other people there (men and women) stood up for me :-)

Quoting UpSheRises:

The two hospitals that birth the most babies in my local area have been breast feeding friendly for over a year. No free formula, not diaper bag filled with coupons, but all the lanolin you want. I'm glad.


Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Breastfeeding tickers

paganbaby
by Teflon Don on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:44 PM

Me too...

Once I get this one weaned, I'm DONE lol

Quoting Tanya93:

Except that isn't happening thank goodness


Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Breastfeeding tickers

paganbaby
by Teflon Don on Apr. 11, 2012 at 8:46 PM

The other post was about a letter sent by a citizen I believe?

And what's wrong with hospitals not giving away free formula? It's not meant to put down FF moms in any way.

Quoting FromAtoZ:

We did this yesterday, I think.  It may very well be a new article??

I am glad to hear this isn't happening here.  Granted, I am long done with children but my children aren't.

I feel sorry for women who cannot BF.  No doubt some will make them feel less worthy of being a mother.  That is a shame.  


Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Breastfeeding tickers

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