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Life without male and female, boys and girls, men and women. Just people....

Posted by on May. 3, 2012 at 11:05 PM
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Sweden’s New Gender-Neutral Pronoun: Hen

A country tries to banish gender.

Leklust catalog, Sweden
Leklust catalog, Sweden

By most people’s standards, Sweden is a paradise for liberated women. It has the highest proportion of working women in the world, and women earn about two-thirds of all degrees. Standard parental leave runs at 480 days, and 60 of those days are reserved exclusively for dads, causing some to credit the country with forging the way for a new kind of nurturing masculinity. In 2010, the World Economic Forum designated Sweden as the most gender-equal country in the world.

But for many Swedes, gender equality is not enough. Many are pushing for the Nordic nation to be not simply gender-equal but gender-neutral. The idea is that the government and society should tolerate no distinctions at all between the sexes. This means on the narrow level that society should show sensitivity to people who don't identify themselves as either male or female, including allowing any type of couple to marry. But that’s the least radical part of the project. What many gender-neutral activists are after is a society that entirely erases traditional gender roles and stereotypes at even the most mundane levels.

Activists are lobbying for parents to be able to choose any name for their children (there are currently just 170 legally recognized unisex names in Sweden). The idea is that names should not be at all tied to gender, so it would be acceptable for parents to, say, name a girl Jack or a boy Lisa. A Swedish children's clothes company has removed the "boys" and "girls" sections in its stores, and the idea of dressing children in a gender-neutral manner has been widely discussed on parenting blogs. This Swedish toy catalog recently decided to switch things around, showing a boy in a Spider-Man costume pushing a pink pram, while a girl in denim rides a yellow tractor.

The Swedish Bowling Association has announced plans to merge male and female bowling tournaments in order to make the sport gender-neutral. Social Democrat politicians have proposed installing gender-neutral restrooms so that members of the public will not be compelled to categorize themselves as either ladies or gents. Several preschools have banished references to pupils' genders, instead referring to children by their first names or as "buddies." So, a teacher would say "good morning, buddies" or "good morning, Lisa, Tom, and Jack" rather than, "good morning, boys and girls." They believe this fulfills the national curriculum's guideline that preschools should "counteract traditional gender patterns and gender roles" and give girls and boys "the same opportunities to test and develop abilities and interests without being limited by stereotypical gender roles."

Earlier this month, the movement for gender neutrality reached a milestone: Just days after International Women's Day a new pronoun, hen (pronounced like the bird in English), was added to the online version of the country’s National Encyclopedia. The entry defines hen as a "proposed gender-neutral personal pronoun instead of he [han in Swedish] and she [hon]."The National Encyclopedia announcement came amid a heated debate about gender neutrality that has been raging in Swedish newspaper columns and TV studios and on parenting blogs and feminist websites. It was sparked by the publication of Sweden's first ever gender-neutral children's book, Kivi och Monsterhund (Kivi and Monsterdog). It tells the story of Kivi, who wants a dog for "hen's" birthday. The male author, Jesper Lundqvist, introduces several gender-neutral words in the book. For instance the words mammor and pappor (moms and dads) are replaced with mappor and pammor.

to read the rest:

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2012/04/hen_sweden_s_new_gender_neutral_pronoun_causes_controversy_.html


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futureshock
by Ruby Member on May. 3, 2012 at 11:06 PM

Interesting yet weird....

psuedonym
by Member on May. 3, 2012 at 11:08 PM

I'll be interested to see if and how this changes any social and professional group dynamics 

Radarma
by "OneDar" on May. 3, 2012 at 11:19 PM

 Today I wondered why boys never wear hair clips/barrettes.

Why has the hair clip/barrette not become acceptable for boys/men?

Just thinking out loud...lol

This Sweden sounds like a progressive place to be!

 

Euphoric
by Bazinga! on May. 3, 2012 at 11:20 PM

 cool

JamesMom714
by Bronze Member on May. 3, 2012 at 11:21 PM
1 mom liked this
Finding the right bathroom would be difficult...
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hollydaze1974
by on May. 3, 2012 at 11:28 PM
5 moms liked this
ok so procreation happens between two gender neutral people....hmmm until we all become hydras and can reproduce without the help of another "person" gender seems necessary.....even IFV or sperm donation
muslimahpj
by Ruby Member on May. 3, 2012 at 11:34 PM
2 moms liked this

Why?


1Giovanni
by Becca on May. 3, 2012 at 11:57 PM
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Am I the only one thinks this is a bad idea. I mean there is a reason why there is men and women. I like being a women, have no issues with my gender.

muslimahpj
by Ruby Member on May. 4, 2012 at 12:13 AM


Quoting 1Giovanni:

Am I the only one thinks this is a bad idea. I mean there is a reason why there is men and women. I like being a women, have no issues with my gender.

No, Im right there with you.

EireLass
by Ruby Member on May. 4, 2012 at 1:58 AM

In my circle alot of men wear ponytails and braids.

Quoting Radarma:

 Today I wondered why boys never wear hair clips/barrettes.

Why has the hair clip/barrette not become acceptable for boys/men?

Just thinking out loud...lol

This Sweden sounds like a progressive place to be!


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