I want to see what the other woman looks like *updated*
Okay, here's the thing. My husband cheated on me about 8 months ago and just lately I've found myself getting more angry about it. I know, I seriously need to go to counseling soon. When I first found out about it, he lied about a lot of things but I slowly but surely got more and more out of him, for example I asked if they slept together and he said no....but it was only once...yeah, whatever. He immediately snuck into the bathroom to send her a warning text that I knew about it, so when I tired to call her or text her, she wouldn't answer. (*This all happened the day I found out, 8 mths ago*)Long story short, he refuses to show me who she is. I mean I have argued, cried, and yelled and he still won't budge. I wonder why he so intent on not showing me? So if I can get honest opinions here; should I just let it go or should I have the right to know? Honestly, the main reason I want to see her is to be able to know who she is if we're out in public and I don't go and talk to the girl who slept with my husband. I want to be able to confront her if the opportunity arises one day since she avoided me like a coward.
Well here's a update; not cause I want everyone to know my business, but because I believe we can learn from each other's experiences. I got the name and I honestly feel no different. I thought I was gonna jump on a computer and find her, but I didn't....and I don't feel like I want to. I think I'm seriously hurt by it all and I know for a fact that to salvage our marriage, counseling is a must. So tomorrow, hopefully I'll hear something from my insurance and get into counseling by Tuesday. I just want to say thanks to all the positive, honest, and understanding comments I received. You never know how you'll handle a situation until you actually go through it yourself. Cheating is so damaging, I look forward to the day that this will not be such a weight on my shoulders.