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Is this a true Statement?

Posted by on Jul. 1, 2012 at 1:28 AM
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Some people think they know me. NOPE. you only Know what I want you to Know.

Posted by on Jul. 1, 2012 at 1:28 AM
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JonJon
by Ruby Member on Jul. 2, 2012 at 10:09 PM
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Quoting lizmarie1975:


Quoting JonJon:

 

Now, let's see if I know enough about you to qualify to talk some shit:

 

Oh do me, do me!

bow down  I like you too much.


bozobean
by Bronze Member on Jul. 2, 2012 at 10:14 PM

No, I think it's stupid. I'm white, and I see racism and prejudice of all kinds against all different groups, and it pisses me off.

rayroe2
by Bronze Member on Jul. 2, 2012 at 11:48 PM

 that is just to much reading because I stay with my statment, it is what it is because everyone is STILL being brainwashed simple once we start teaching every race lets all get along the shit well go away.

Quoting JonJon:


Quoting rayroe2:

I disagree with this because in south Carolina the white people are racist against the black people and the black people are racist against the white people everyone goes threw it just in different forums. I call it judgement because both parties have been brainwashed in hating each other just because the color of their skin but it will get better it already is on the path to getting better.

Nope, ray; white people hate black people because they can't own us or lynch us anymore.  Whites have decided we MUST, we HAVE TO hate you because you used to own us and lynch us (still do, but that's another post).  YOU see OUR protestations that racism is rampantly entwined in the infrastructure of this country as hatred.  Stop hating on us and give us our rights and we can all be hearts and flowers. 

Blacks don't hate whites, we FEAR you!  You are undereducating then flunking and suspending our kids because you know you can get away with it.  You are hiring us to appease the feds then finding excuses to fire us because you can get away with it.  You are denying us housing because you know you can get away with it.  You are denying us the right to vote because you know you can get away with it.  You are profiling us and jailing us for crimes white people would get a slap on the wrist for because you know you can get away with it.

You are killing our male children and our men for sport because you know you can get away with it.  Except GZ; sucks to be him.

Oh, I forgot to say SOME of you, not ALL.

 

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Radarma
by "OneDar" on Jul. 3, 2012 at 12:44 AM

 Jesus Christ, I miss Redteux.

Bunch of god damned wimps up in here.

Letting this racist shit ride. Ya'll oughtta be ashamed of yourselves.

Jesus! Grow a pair!

JonJon
by Ruby Member on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:23 AM


Quoting Radarma:

 Jesus Christ, I miss Redteux.

Bunch of god damned wimps up in here.

Letting this racist shit ride. Ya'll oughtta be ashamed of yourselves.

Jesus! Grow a pair!

I'm glad they are not bothering you, Dar.  You have all the right in the world to be a racist shit.  I recognize and respect that as a Constitutional thingy.

It's good to be able to have a good mix of different ways of thinking represented in here or things will get boring real fast.  It's always good for honing one's perspective to see how the other half lives, thinks, feels and believes.


Ms.KitKat
by Gold Member on Jul. 3, 2012 at 6:35 PM

LOL. Don't give her so much credit. She's a troll and a stalker. She doesn't have a memory at all much less a good one. LOL. She got all that info from that woman's personal profile and proceeded to use that info against her in order to spew her hatred. And what she couldn't get from the profile- she made up to serve her own personal agenda of hate. The only thing anyone could give her credit for is an active hate-filled imagination.  

Quoting kailu1835:

 I may vomit in my mouth just a little when I say this, but if what she says about you is true (she's got a pretty good memory) then I have to say she's right about the bf.  You should put more value on yourself.

And don't move to Texas.  There is a HUGE racist "community" there.  Your daughter will be the brunt of endless bullying.  A couple of years ago, a black man was drug with a truck until his limbs started falling off... they REALLY don't like black people very much there.

Quoting Angelanscalf89:

You seem very racist like you have a stick up your ass against white people (im thinking your black but cant see on mobile) if you would like to discuss this you can message me i am not discussing this in here.

Quoting JonJon:

 


Quoting Angelanscalf89:

Actually unless you know me dont talk shit.

So the people who know you can talk shit?  I'll get back to you on that in a minute.

He 3 wayed his mom to tell her I was pregnant and I heard what she said.

That's why we are admonished not to eavesdrop; you might hear something you didn't want to know.  So you were both deceitful.  His risking your feelings getting hurt and risking his mom saying something she wouldn't have said to your face out of politeness was thoughtless, inconsiderate and selfish; you should have seen a red flag.

I used to have to force him to see her he never even tried.

In what ways did you force him?  I wouldn't force MY child on someone who didn't want her; that's how little kids wind up bashed against a wall.  If you weren't worried about her being abused, you should have had some pride in not begging or forcing someone to show you some respect by acknowledging your child.

You havent met his family they really and truly are racist.

All we blacks know each other; didn't you know that?  What's their family name?  I'm thinking there's about five different definitions of "racist" floating around CM; what do YOU believe it means?

and my daughter doesnt know anything about it.

I have cause to doubt that; tell you why in a minute...

Dont judge me or assume that I act a certain way because the truth is you make yourself seem like an ass because your wrong.

Oh, I had you accurately summed up from the get.  You're one of those white women who can't believe you got used and then dumped by a black guy; your ego's taken quite a blow and you want some sort of satisfaction.  At the beginning, you used your child as leverage and maybe hoped to get him to come back to you to be close to her but ultimatums and trying to force people to bend to your will have the opposite result; they repel the people you want to attract back to you.

And your right its not his whole family. His sister always tried to see dd and i let her but she stopped trying after her moved out of state.

And the uncle; don't forget the uncle.  The fact of the matter is you probably have never spoken to anyone in her family but the the uncle and the sister who probably wanted to see for themselves if the little girl had a family resemblance and have decided, all on your own, that they are racists or they would have made your ex do what you want him to do.  I don't care how racist you believe his family to be, if his mother had been convinced by his sister and her brother that your daughter was her son's child, she'd have wanted to be part of her grandchild's life.  They don't believe the child is his.
Have you sued him for paternity? 

Now, let's see if I know enough about you to qualify to talk some shit:

You're either 22 or 23.  You have a daughter aged 4; her name starts with the letter K.  Your son is 3, his name starts with B.  K is starting kindergarten in the fall and you need to buy her a uniform but it's not a private school; it's a public school.  It's going to be quite an expense for you because neither you nor your df work.  Your son is going to start head start this fall and you're hoping you will be able to find a part-time job.

You like to say you make a little money taking care of your grandmother but your df says HE's the one who takes care of her.  You say your mom also pays you to take care of HER toddlers, a boy 4 and a girl 3 while she's at work.  You clean her house as well as your own which you say is spotless because you clean it six times a day. 

Your df is studying to become an airplane mechanic.  He doesn't work.  You like to say he's in school but he studies from a book two hours a day in preparation to take tests and then go into some hands-on training.  You say he accuses you of doing nothing all day and doesn't appreciate how well you do your job of taking care of your family; not just your kids, your whole family including your gma and your mom's house and her kids.  Your df got online and said you are a liar, that HE's the one who cleans your home, cooks the food and takes care of the kids, even the one who belongs to the other guy.  He wants to know WHERE that guy is as if he believes you have never had any idea, either, much less have been in contact with his family and therefore couldn't know how they think about your daughter. Your own df called you a liar.

He has no job, sleeps in until half past noon, studies two hours a day as preparation to committing his lessons to memory, you receive food stamps and live in subsidized housing in Romulus, MI and are ready to uproot your children from their gma and ggma to follow your df to either TN or TX; preferably, to TX.  Now, I'd like to stop here to tell you that if your little boy is also black, you'd be smart to stay clear of TX or TN because neither of those places like black people, much, and I don't know about TN but TX has the stand your ground law and a white man shot a black man in the back who was running away from the neighbor's house even though the cops told him not to go outside and the old dude never even went to court.  It's been open season on black males since the first one was brought here from Africa.

You joined CM in April and you joined CE&HT in May.  You belong to 9 groups and have 6 CM friends.  You like country music and heavy metal (quite ecclectic).  Among your interests are:  green living, holidays & seasonal fun, recipes & cooking, writing & blogging, weight loss and reading.  BTW:  You keep talking about going to Texas, but that's about one or two years in the future (if at all).
You have a bad temper and are rude to people who question you and are plain-talking and straight-forward no-nonsense talkers but I don't blame you for the way you replied to me; I didn't expect you to like it and I didn't expect you to say anything that was dismissive but with class.  I expected you to come out with the potty mouth.
I am sincere when I say the following:  You've had a tough life.  You pin your hopes on men but the wrong men.  You need to get away from your mom and let the state give your gma a home health aid.  BTW:  Until you distance yourself from your family, you can get the state to pay you much more than your gma does to take care of her to be her home health assistant.  Gma can keep her money and be richer.
Your money will go further when you get rid of that dead weight you call your df.  He's never going to become an airplane mechanic.  He says he's ashamed of being unemployed but is he, really?  He says he's gone to great lengths to get work, but has he, REALLY?  In a way, you two seem made for each other what with you being so naive and gullible and his being so slick as to get you and granny and mommy to take care of you all.
One more time; if you really do want to know what racism looks and sounds like, move to Texas with your black daughter and you will find out first hand.  It doesn't seem as if you are going to be able to afford to stay in a nice neighborhood and it's best to stay in MI where you know where the pitfalls are and know who to avoid.  We never know how good we have it where we already are until we move somewhere else.  At least your mom and your gma are a kind of support.  You don't really seem to have any personal problems with either one. 
Dump the guy.  Get a real job or get some public assistance while you take some classes to go into a career that will pay you enough money to be more choosey about the men you let into your life and don't let any of those men into your home life and don't introduce them to your kids for at least three months after meeting them.  It's best to leave the guys alone if you take classes because men are too much of a distraction and they like to sabotage your efforts to improve yourself. 
Don't talk about your kids the first time you meet a guy because that will either chase him away or attract a predator.  Don't talk to any guys who want to get to know you when you have the kids with you because either they'll think you're easy and won't expect them to wear condoms or they are really interested in your kids.  Don't get involved with any other guys for a couple of years while you get yourself self-sufficient and self-reliant.
You said you like to read; how did you like reading my pamphlet?





 

 


Redwall
by Silver Member on Jul. 3, 2012 at 7:48 PM

I don't think it's racist at all.  Why is it so easy to see racism when you're black or oriental or mexican?  I guess I've never looked at the skin color...to me, if you're a good person, I like you, if not, regardless of your color I don't.  White people are treated differently in a group of black people as well.

JonJon
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 4:20 PM


Quoting Redwall:

I don't think it's racist at all.  Why is it so easy to see racism when you're black or oriental or mexican?  I guess I've never looked at the skin color...to me, if you're a good person, I like you, if not, regardless of your color I don't.  White people are treated differently in a group of black people as well.

Very odd wording.  It's easiER to recognize racism when you EXPERIENCE it or when you've been taught by someone who does experience it or who has experienced racism.

Shouldn't your next to last sentence read you LIKE people regardless of color rather than you DISlike them regardless of color?  Better yet, you should have just stuck to your statement you've never looked at color rather than going on to contradict yourself.

Treating people differently is not racism.  Treating people more politely is treating them differently than you do people with whom you are more familiar.

Racist people can be very polite; they often are, to hide their true thoughts and beliefs.


Black people are seldom that devious; we tend to tell you to your face what we think about you.


charleyd68
by Platinum Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 4:54 PM

Yes, to an extent.

JonJon
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 9:21 PM

I've been looking for someplace to put this and this post is as good as any.  Besides, mine gets to be the 200th reply!

Has anyone here never heard this song?  EVERYONE knows you have to take the wind into consideration when you decide to spit outdoors! 

Just saying.



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