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Are there men who would not marry a woman who was a stripper or who had been a stripper?

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I am watching the Real Housewives of New Jersey and this issue came up.  So what do you think?

Are there men who would not marry a woman who was a stripper or who had been a stripper?  If there are such men, what would their reasons be?

by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 8:12 PM
Replies (31-40):
Sheryllinn
by Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:24 PM
Wow lol. I hope they didn't loose them at work : /

Quoting OttawaHoney:

Lol, just curious, I remember hearing about 2 I guess you would say disabled strippers around here one had only one arm and the other supposedly had only one leg... Never saw them myself tip verify, lol.




Quoting Sheryllinn:

Lol no deep south Louisiana





Quoting OttawaHoney:

Do you live anywhere near Flint, Michigan?








Quoting Sheryllinn:

Stripping in the area that I live in probably differs from larger cities/ towns. There is almost always drug use and prostitution goin on simultaneously. It's not your good lookin sopranos strippers. There have been toothless and legless( yes you read right) strippers in nearby clubs. Not the cream of the crop.


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Lizardannie1966
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:26 PM

Personally I see nothing wrong with stripping. There's a place in this world for it.

I would think that if she had lied about her past or current profession, that alone would be a reason to no longer be with her and not the stripping itself.

lga1965
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:29 PM

 

Quoting bekalynne440:

My husband probably never would have.  Its about purity and having something special between a husband and wife.  My husband and I are each other's one and only (sexually).  My husband has also never been to a strip club and doesn't look at/watch porn.  He and I find our complete sexual satisfaction in each other. 

 That is really nice. Its the way a marriage should be. Good for you!

OttawaHoney
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:36 PM
Lol, no telling Flint is a really rough place to live...


Quoting Sheryllinn:

Wow lol. I hope they didn't loose them at work : /



Quoting OttawaHoney:

Lol, just curious, I remember hearing about 2 I guess you would say disabled strippers around here one had only one arm and the other supposedly had only one leg... Never saw them myself tip verify, lol.






Quoting Sheryllinn:

Lol no deep south Louisiana







Quoting OttawaHoney:

Do you live anywhere near Flint, Michigan?










Quoting Sheryllinn:

Stripping in the area that I live in probably differs from larger cities/ towns. There is almost always drug use and prostitution goin on simultaneously. It's not your good lookin sopranos strippers. There have been toothless and legless( yes you read right) strippers in nearby clubs. Not the cream of the crop.



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GotSomeKids
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 11:32 PM

Well, I asked my brother in law and he says he wouldn't marry one, but he would have an affair with one.

Personally, if it is their past and doesn't "currenly" conflict with any of my ethics and values, then I don't see the big deal. 

connie45
by Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 11:42 PM
Are you Michelle Duggar?


Quoting bekalynne440:

My husband probably never would have.  Its about purity and having something special between a husband and wife.  My husband and I are each other's one and only (sexually).  My husband has also never been to a strip club and doesn't look at/watch porn.  He and I find our complete sexual satisfaction in each other. 


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mamaslove4ever
by New Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 12:07 AM

She did happlie married and just had her 2nd baby! 

Quoting futureshock:


Quoting mamaslove4ever:

my sister was a stripper and when her soon to be husband found out it was in her past like she hadnt done it in over 5 years he left her because she was a "whore" and he even accused her of being a prostitute. he had no idea why she did it he just said he was too good for a whore and left and we never herd from him again. o well his loss

WOW!  Maybe he was just looking for an excuse.  That is harsh!  I hope your sister found a better guy.


bekalynne440
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 4:30 AM

Haha =)  No, but I do get called her a lot.  I share many similar beliefs with her and have great respect for her, though I haven't been able to meet her in person yet.

Quoting connie45:

Are you Michelle Duggar?


Quoting bekalynne440:

My husband probably never would have.  Its about purity and having something special between a husband and wife.  My husband and I are each other's one and only (sexually).  My husband has also never been to a strip club and doesn't look at/watch porn.  He and I find our complete sexual satisfaction in each other. 



moneysaver6
by Gold Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 5:14 AM
Yes. Those men exist...and for good reason!
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Carmel63
by Bronze Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 8:10 AM
Not a chance would my husband marry a woman who was a stripper. He would not knowingly date a woman who was a stripper, even if it occured years in the past. He views stripping as a legal form of prostitution.

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