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Worldwide Trends in Honor Killings

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Worldwide Trends in Honor Killings

by Phyllis Chesler
Middle East Quarterly
Spring 2010, pp. 3-11

combat the epidemic of honor killings requires understanding what makes these murders unique. They differ from plain and psychopathic homicides, serial killings, crimes of passion, revenge killings, and domestic violence. Their motivation is different and based on codes of morality and behavior that typify some cultures, often reinforced by fundamentalist religious dictates. In 2000, the United Nations estimated that there are 5,000 honor killings every year.[1] That number might be reasonable for Pakistan alone, but worldwide the numbers are much greater. In 2002 and again in 2004, the U.N. brought a resolution to end honor killings and other honor-related crimes. In 2004, at a meeting in The Hague about the rising tide of honor killings in Europe, law enforcement officers from the U.K. announced plans to begin reopening old cases to see if certain murders were, indeed, honor murders.[2] The number of honor killings is routinely underestimated, and most estimates are little more than guesses that vary widely. Definitive or reliable worldwide estimates of honor killing incidence do not exist.

Morsal O, a 16-year-old German-Afghan girl, was killed in May 2008 by her 24-year-old brother Ahmad Sobair O. He stabbed her twenty-three times in a parking lot in Hamburg, Germany, because of her alleged impure moral conduct. Murder of teenage or young adult women by their fathers or other close male relatives is characteristic of classic honor killings and is not a pattern in non-immigrant Western populations.

Most honor killings are not classified as such, are rarely prosecuted, or when prosecuted in the Muslim world, result in relatively light sentences.[3] When an honor killing occurs in the West, many people, including the police, still shy away from calling it an honor killing. In the West, both Islamist and feminist groups, including domestic violence activists, continue to insist that honor killings are a form of Western-style domestic violence or femicide (killing of women).[4] They are not.[5] This study documents that there are at least two types of honor killings and two victim populations. Both types differ significantly from each other, just as they differ from Western domestic femicide. One group has an average age of seventeen; the other group's average age is thirty-six. The age difference is a statistically significant one.

 

Families Killing Their Young Women

The study's findings indicate that honor killings accelerated significantly in a 20-year period between 1989 and 2009.[6] This may mean that honor killings are genuinely escalating, perhaps as a function of jihadist extremism and Islamic fundamentalism, or that honor killings are being more accurately reported and prosecuted, especially in the West, but also in the East. The expansion of the Internet may account for wider reporting of these incidents.

The worldwide average age of victims for the entire population is twenty-three (Table 1). This is true for all geographical regions. Thus, wherever an honor killing is committed, it is primarily a crime against young people. Just over half of these victims were daughters and sisters; about a quarter were wives and girlfriends of the perpetrators. The remainder included mothers, aunts, nieces, cousins, uncles, or non-relatives.

Honor killings are a family collaboration. Worldwide, two-thirds of the victims were killed by their families of origin. (See Table 1). Murder by the family of origin was at its highest (72 percent) in the Muslim world and at its lowest in North America (49 percent); European families of origin were involved almost as often as those in the Muslim world, possibly because so many are first- or second-generation immigrants and, therefore, still tightly bound to their native cultures. Alternatively, this might be due to the Islamist radicalization of third or even fourth generations. Internationally, fathers played an active role in over one-third of the honor murders. Fathers were most involved in North America (52 percent) and least involved in the Muslim world; in Europe, fathers were involved in more than one-third of the murders.

Worldwide, 42 percent of these murders were carried out by multiple perpetrators, a characteristic which distinguishes them considerably from Western domestic femicide. A small number of the murders worldwide involved more than one victim. Multiple murders were at their highest in North America and at their lowest in Europe. In the Muslim world, just under a quarter of the murders involved more than one victim. Additional victims included the dead woman's children, boyfriend, fiancé, husband, sister, brother, or parents.

Worldwide, more than half the victims were tortured; i.e., they did not die instantly but in agony. In North America, over one-third of the victims were tortured; in Europe, two-thirds were tortured; in the Muslim world, half were tortured. Torturous deaths include: being raped or gang-raped before being killed; being strangled or bludgeoned to death; being stabbed many times (10 to 40 times); being stoned or burned to death; being beheaded, or having one's throat slashed.

Finally, worldwide, 58 percent of the victims were murdered for being "too Western" and/or for resisting or disobeying cultural and religious expectations (see Table 1). The accusation of being "too Western" was the exact language used by the perpetrator or perpetrators. Being "too Western" meant being seen as too independent, not subservient enough, refusing to wear varieties of Islamic clothing (including forms of the veil), wanting an advanced education and a career, having non-Muslim (or non-Sikh or non-Hindu) friends or boyfriends, refusing to marry one's first cousin, wanting to choose one's own husband, choosing a socially "inferior" or non-Muslim (or non-Sikh or non-Hindu) husband; or leaving an abusive husband. There were statistically significant regional differences for this motive. For example, in North America, 91 percent of victims were murdered for being "too Western" as compared to a smaller but still substantial number (71 percent) in Europe. In comparison, only 43 percent of victims were killed for this reason in the Muslim world.

Less than half (42 percent) of the victims worldwide were murdered for committing an alleged "sexual impropriety"; this refers to victims who had been raped, were allegedly having extra-marital affairs, or who were viewed as "promiscuous" (even where this might not refer to actual sexual promiscuity or even sexual activity). However, in the Muslim world, 57 percent of victims were murdered for this motive as compared to 29 percent in Europe and a small number (9 percent) in North America.

by on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:15 PM
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futureshock
by Ruby Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:17 PM

What are the reasons for the honor killings of the older women?

futureshock
by Ruby Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:22 PM
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As difficult as much of this is to grasp/accept, this part is one of the most bizarre aspects:

As for rape, society perceives the violated woman not as a victim who needs protection but as someone who debased the family honor, and relatives will opt to undo the shame by taking her life. Failure to do so further dishonors the family.

futureshock
by Ruby Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:22 PM

How can mothers and fathers really love their children if they can torture and murder them?

futureshock
by Ruby Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:33 PM

wow


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Clearly, honor murders enjoy the approval of the majority of Jordanian society.

annabl1970
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:33 PM
I think (IMO) the reasons are the same. The difference is the perpetrator most likely to be a husband/in laws. Sometimes, murder as result of domestic violence can be covered under " honor killing" to justify the crime and get lighter sentence.
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Quoting futureshock:

What are the reasons for the honor killings of the older women?


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futureshock
by Ruby Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:33 PM
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Very true.

Quoting annabl1970:

I am hoping there is a way to stop HKs, at least in US and Europe. But the Muslims themselves should understand its barbaric crime, and it has no place in modern society.


Quoting AdrianneHill:

Thats a lot of information. I wish there was a way to bring about an end to honor killings or at least slow them down a bit, but anything I could say would likely only get a woman in more trouble.


annabl1970
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:35 PM
Yes that bothers me so much
Woman is not a human being in ther eyes :(


Quoting futureshock:

wow



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Clearly, honor murders enjoy the approval of the majority of Jordanian society.



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annabl1970
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:40 PM
Yes!!!


Quoting futureshock:

This is worthy of repeating:

Islamic gender apartheid is a human rights violation and cannot be
justified in the name of cultural relativism, tolerance, anti-racism,
diversity, or political correctness. As long as Islamist groups continue
to deny, minimize, or obfuscate the problem, and government and police
officials accept their inaccurate versions of reality, women will
continue to be killed for honor in the West.


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annabl1970
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 6:42 PM
I am wondering the same. I think as soon as the family honor is in the line, the love is gone. Because " shame should be washed with blood":(:(:(


Quoting futureshock:

How can mothers and fathers really love their children if they can torture and murder them?


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StarburstKisses
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:11 AM

LOL The woman you quoted must not know much about Jordan. Queen Rania is a HUUUGGGEEEE advocate for women and childrens rights. So much so that she's gotten a lot of shit over it and has had threats from tribes who had pledged their alleigance to Jordan.

Quoting futureshock:

wow


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Clearly, honor murders enjoy the approval of the majority of Jordanian society.


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