Single Parenthood~And it WILL offend, too bad. *UPDATED*

[Radarma]

 

Just think about it, alright?

This is a man who does not sugar coat.

Like it, or not, folks.
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I am adding a few more of his videos, some of which I believe show the softer side of the man. I hope you will take a look and see. You can meet his family in one of these vids, and you can hear him talk about how he IS a better parent than his parents were and that should be a goal we, as parents, share.

Good stuff.  

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xm6cBAO93zg

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RvRsZ7Ul--k

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fn2jn0GT9ZE

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7c_9HIcEP0&feature=relmfu

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgBLuf6vbSE&feature=relmfu

 

 

 

[mommajen32]

Quoting Radarma:

Quoting mommajen32:

And yet you take no issue with the "cracka cunt" remark huh? No wait, I remember...according to YOU "no black woman would use that term". Right, got it. Nevermind the FACT that hundreds of eyes saw it and remember it.

See, "cracka" stands for "cracker" Jen. Hence, if I were the racist some paint me to be...derrrr...dontcha tink that ol en word woulda come a flyin?
Sincerely not used to dumbing it down for YOU...but if playing stupid is where u r, I can meet u there.

So you want a pat on the back for not calling nigger ...lol. 

Um yeah ... 

Hilarious. 

Obviously the thought to do so was there, and who knows (or cares) what you mumbled. If you want to know about a person just let them keeeeeepppp ttaaalllkkkiiinnnggg. 

**less than amused b/c my friends w/jokes are w/me on fb, you are only pure entertainment**

[JonJon]

Blue.

Quoting Radarma:

 

Quoting JonJon:

Sa-a-ay...isn't that the black group you proudly reported you got shut down and all the moms kicked off CM? 

I really do get tired of you hearing my story over and over again, don't you?

It changes a bit every time you tell it so no, I don't get tired of your story.

No, this did not happen on cafemom.

See how your story changes?  You absolutely said you spent two weeks getting 50 black women booted off CM and closing their group and vowed to do the same with that other group in which you wrote that statement.

Further, there were a gajillion "witnesses" and it was a gondola full of ugly. 

You're good at manufacturing ugly.  How many is a gajillion?
A good deal of the aftermath is still available online,I  am sure SAK can help you locate it all, since I interest you so.

Granted, she's very resourceful.  On my own I found another site where you got a black woman booted which resulted in your also getting booted.  I guess they figured it takes two.  Sometimes you get caught baiting and inflaming, don't  you? 

You were making a threat to another, multi-racial group with active black participants that you believed was skewed in favor of the black CMs? 

If it's old news, why do you keep referring to it?  There's no proof you were ever called CC, by a woman in that other group (if it ever existed); you've merely alleged it.  Too bad you got the group closed or you could post a link to the alleged offense.  Your deleting your posts and replies and getting other people's posts and replies deleted and a whole group closed (if one is to believe you) sometimes backfires, doesn't it?  But most of the time, it removes your complicity and duplicity and your aggression so it's worth it, right?

The problem is, you've proven over and over that you can't be believed.

TMOT, the man in the video and what he has to say, you know, the TOPIC here, most certainly can be believed so I consider this a mission accomplished.

But Derrick Grayson, that's his real name (I just can't refer to him as the minister of truth; more like the minister of his own ego) is an ex-con still playing the con game.  He's apparently an ex-communicated preacher who has started his own ministry. 

In answer to a negative comment about him on one of his YouTube videos, he gleefully reported that he didn't care what the commenter wrote because he gets paid whoever comments and bragged that he now has a job at MSNW because of what he does.  He has ads; he obviously does his video not only because he likes the sound of his own voice but because he gets paid.

Derrick can put on different personas; he's quite an actor and while he may not be particularly ethical he's not stupid.  He is another black man who has decided that the way to make money is to say what he believes white people, who comprise 78% of the population, want to hear.  If you want to get paid the most money for the least work, tell the majority what you believe they want to hear.  It's more like people watch in horror, disbelief and dismay.

I hope you are well these days Joni.

I could be healthier but I'm doing well, today, Darlynn, thank you.

I hope you and yours are well, too.  What on earth would I do without your posts to rebut?

Quoting Radarma:

 Jennifer,

I responded to your puff buddy's bringing it up, YET AGAIN.

How about you lecture her?

Nah, that don't fit your agenda now does it? God forbid someone, even a black MAN address an issue that is HURTING the african american race. God fucking forbid.

Now go hide somewhere and call him an uncle tom.

Quoting mommajen32:

Quoting Radarma:

 Nope, but that was the darned best I could come up with as a result of hearing what she was saying about ME, in some private group which turned out to be not so private.

It was a group for AA moms, and quite a few of them took issue with her double talk; you know, being on a public board telling all the interested white moms what is and is not racist, all the while holed up in a private, 100% non white group calling those interested white moms fools and cracka cunts. Oh it was RICH, trust me. So yeah, "black bitch" was all I could come up with. See, shit like "n*gga" is not in NOT in my vocabulary, even when beyond disgusted and pissed.  Fault me for it.

Further, wanna hear something really interesting? In another group HERE on Cafemom, my assigned group nickname was "white bitch". According to Cafemom, that was not against the TOS/CG nor did it fall under the protected category of hate speech.

So you go right on judging me for my heated response, some five years ago now.

~white bitch

 

Quoting katzmeow726:

So it makes it okay to say what you said, because of what she said?  Here I was thinking that sort of logic died out in elementary school


 

Quoting Radarma:

Quoting sweet-a-kins:

Oh you r such the psycho stalker.

Yes, I called a BLACK woman a "black bitch" AFTER she was outed AND BANNED for calling me a "cracka cunt".

Stalk on puffy, stalk the fuck on! Lol

 

Wow. I've been sporatic on this site for months, and you're still telling the same damn stories .... 

And you still leave out that you were labeled "white bitch" in a group that is run by white women with the initials HD. Not a lick a color in that joint void of two or three. So if white women call you white bitch what does that have to do with women of color? 

But I will say it is humorous you imply that women in AA groups just sit around using the phrase "cracka cunt" ...really? lol. If it's a 100% black forum how would you know what the women were saying? 

Why should she fault you for not calling nigger? Do you read what you write? ..lol. You just said, I called her a black bitch but you could have called her nigger - and we should be what glad about that? 

Dumb as a doorknob there "sparky"

**I ain't missin jackshit, same thing different day**

Carryon on ole CC ....no need to respond, I'm going back to facebook. 

My best memory is the picture of the gigantic pink penis we posted after one of your little tirades ... remember that Sweets? Flippin hilarious. 

 

 

[JonJon]

This is Derrick saying he was ex-communicated for not insisting his people tithe; it's quite a rant.  Actually, he quit because he didn't like being criticized. 

I believe he quit that church because he egotistically decided the Bishop was referring to him in one of his sermons.  I get the impression he believes he's smarter than everyone else on earth and he didn't like having someone telling him what to do.

Maybe it was just an excuse to start his own ministry so he could keep all the offerings of the true believers.

He shows who he really is in this video.  His language is appalling for someone who has the gall to call himself a minister.

What he says about black people is only believable to those who already believe the demeaning things he says about blacks.

[Radarma]

 Joni, I am not reading your diatribe of lies. I could stoop to your level and sit here and make up countless lies about you too, but why? See, you would have to have some bearing in my world, and you would need to matter to me in some way. You do not.

Find something else to do, other than me.