Spin off, whould you want/need to know?
If your husband/SO had an affair would you want to know?
I was very surprised at all the people who would not tell if they had an affair. Would they want to be told?
How far you go in life depends on your being: tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of both the weak and strong. Because someday in life you would have been one or all of these. GeorgeWashingtonCarver