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How many of you would say she deserved it?

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be thankful you have a life, and forsake your vain and presumptious desire for a second one.

by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 7:36 PM
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GOBryan
by Silver Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 8:26 PM

Only in America is being topless a big deal, however, and since it is.. if she's not at the beach and she's disrespecting herself and others by "going against the grain".. then so be it.. Of course, no one has a right to lay on hand on her but she's giving the impression that it's ok.. 

futureshock
by Ruby Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 8:27 PM
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Quoting Dzyre1115:

 No one asks for it, but common sense often times can prevent it!

No, it cannot and this is a fallacy known as the "Just World" theory.

http://www.scu.edu/ethics/publications/iie/v3n2/justworld.html

mamalusbear
by Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 8:27 PM

Nobody deserves to be assaulted

i.m.r.
by Bronze Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 8:33 PM
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There was another woman who was date raped in Alberta (I could be wrong) who's attacker got off because she was wearing a tube top and had been drinking... Hence why slut walk continues.

Quoting Sekirei:


Quoting lga1965:

 Of course she is not asking for it. Women don't ask for it.


But women who are fully clothed in a winter coat and hat and boots also get raped. Rape is NOT sexual. No, it is control , it is a way to hurt. So, she is not sending the right message. She's standing there with her boobs hanging out ...silly....thinking that men rape topless women. Not so. Its not about sex.

Her point is  is that women have been told they were asking for it by the way they dressed.

There was a woman who was raped and her attacker got off because she was wearing skinny jeans. The judge agreed that she had to have consented because the attacker argued he could never have gotten them off without her help

Even though the pants were torn

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Healthystart30
by Silver Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 9:03 PM
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It's NEVER the victims fault, I don't care what they are doing or wearing, if a woman is drunk out of her mind wearing a skimpy skirt, the first thing in a persons mind should be to help her out, not harm her!
Stephanie329
by Platinum Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 9:08 PM
Of course not, but I know some that would. I bet they're here.....
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Stephanie329
by Platinum Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 9:09 PM
Bumping to check out link later:)

Quoting futureshock:


Quoting Dzyre1115:

 No one asks for it, but common sense often times can prevent it!

No, it cannot and this is a fallacy known as the "Just World" theory.

http://www.scu.edu/ethics/publications/iie/v3n2/justworld.html

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Stephanie329
by Platinum Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 9:10 PM
Actually, she's writing that she's not - right on her body.

Quoting GOBryan:

Only in America is being topless a big deal, however, and since it is.. if she's not at the beach and she's disrespecting herself and others by "going against the grain".. then so be it.. Of course, no one has a right to lay on hand on her but she's giving the impression that it's ok.. 

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Whaaaaaa....O.o
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 9:13 PM
No one deserves it. But it still isn't very smart to go that bare.
GOBryan
by Silver Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 9:15 PM

And yet... she's topless in a place she shouldn't be.  

Quoting Stephanie329:

Actually, she's writing that she's not - right on her body.

Quoting GOBryan:

Only in America is being topless a big deal, however, and since it is.. if she's not at the beach and she's disrespecting herself and others by "going against the grain".. then so be it.. Of course, no one has a right to lay on hand on her but she's giving the impression that it's ok.. 


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