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50 Examples of White Privilege in Daily Life

Those who believe the U.S. has achieved a color-blind society, or that racism is no longer an issue in American society ought to read some of Peggy McIntosh's reflections on race.  "White privilege" is often invisible, and often denied, but there is little doubt that it exists, she observed. Reflecting on it explodes the myth of meritocracy, and "the myth that democratic choice is equally available to all."

"I was taught to see racism only in individual acts of meanness, not in invisible systems conferring dominance on my group," she wrote. As a white person, she "had been taught about racism as something that puts others at a disadvantage, but had been taught not to see one of its corollary aspects, white privilege, which puts me at an advantage.... I have come to see white privilege as an invisible package of unearned assets that I can count on cashing in each day, but about which I was 'meant' to remain oblivious. White privilege is like an invisible weightless knapsack of special provisions, maps, passports, codebooks, visas, clothes, tools , and blank checks.  Describing white privilege makes one newly accountable."

She goes on to describe the "daily effects of white privilege" that "as far as I can tell, my African American co-workers, friends and acquaintances...cannot count on most of these conditions."

1. I can if I wish arrange to be in the company of people of my race most of the time.

2. I can avoid spending time with people whom I was trained to mistrust and who have learned to mistrust my kind or me.

3. If I should need to move, I can be pretty sure of renting or purchasing housing in an area which I can afford and in which I would want to live.

4. I can be pretty sure that my neighbors in such a location will be neutral or pleasant to me.

5. I can go shopping alone most of the time, pretty well assured that I will not be followed or harassed.

6. I can turn on the television or open to the front page of the paper and see people of my race widely represented.

7. When I am told about our national heritage or about "civilization," I am shown that people of my color made it what it is.

8. I can be sure that my children will be given curricular materials that testify to the existence of their race.

9. If I want to, I can be pretty sure of finding a publisher for this piece on white privilege.

10. I can be pretty sure of having my voice heard in a group in which I am the only member of my race.

11. I can be casual about whether or not to listen to another person's voice in a group in which s/he is the only member of his/her race.

12. I can go into a music shop and count on finding the music of my race represented, into a supermarket and find the staple foods which fit with my cultural traditions, into a hairdresser's shop and find someone who can cut my hair.

13. Whether I use checks, credit cards or cash, I can count on my skin color not to work against the appearance of financial reliability.

14. I can arrange to protect my children most of the time from people who might not like them.

15. I do not have to educate my children to be aware of systemic racism for their own daily physical protection.

16. I can be pretty sure that my children's teachers and employers will tolerate them if they fit school and workplace norms; my chief worries about them do not concern others' attitudes toward their race.

17. I can talk with my mouth full and not have people put this down to my color.

18. I can swear, or dress in second hand clothes, or not answer letters, without having people attribute these choices to the bad morals, the poverty or the illiteracy of my race.

19. I can speak in public to a powerful male group without putting my race on trial.

20. I can do well in a challenging situation without being called a credit to my race.

21. I am never asked to speak for all the people of my racial group.

22. I can remain oblivious of the language and customs of persons of color who constitute the world's majority without feeling in my culture any penalty for such oblivion.

23. I can criticize our government and talk about how much I fear its policies and behavior without being seen as a cultural outsider.

24. I can be pretty sure that if I ask to talk to the "person in charge", I will be facing a person of my race.

25. If a traffic cop pulls me over or if the IRS audits my tax return, I can be sure I haven't been singled out because of my race.

26. I can easily buy posters, post-cards, picture books, greeting cards, dolls, toys and children's magazines featuring people of my race.

27. I can go home from most meetings of organizations I belong to feeling somewhat tied in, rather than isolated, out-of-place, outnumbered, unheard, held at a distance or feared.

28. I can be pretty sure that an argument with a colleague of another race is more likely to jeopardize her/his chances for advancement than to jeopardize mine.

29. I can be pretty sure that if I argue for the promotion of a person of another race, or a program centering on race, this is not likely to cost me heavily within my present setting, even if my colleagues disagree with me.

30. If I declare there is a racial issue at hand, or there isn't a racial issue at hand, my race will lend me more credibility for either position than a person of color will have.

31. I can choose to ignore developments in minority writing and minority activist programs, or disparage them, or learn from them, but in any case, I can find ways to be more or less protected from negative consequences of any of these choices.

32. My culture gives me little fear about ignoring the perspectives and powers of people of other races.

33. I am not made acutely aware that my shape, bearing or body odor will be taken as a reflection on my race.

34. I can worry about racism without being seen as self-interested or self-seeking.

35. I can take a job with an affirmative action employer without having my co-workers on the job suspect that I got it because of my race.

36. If my day, week or year is going badly, I need not ask of each negative episode or situation whether it had racial overtones.

37. I can be pretty sure of finding people who would be willing to talk with me and advise me about my next steps, professionally.

38. I can think over many options, social, political, imaginative or professional, without asking whether a person of my race would be accepted or allowed to do what I want to do.

39. I can be late to a meeting without having the lateness reflect on my race.

40. I can choose public accommodation without fearing that people of my race cannot get in or will be mistreated in the places I have chosen.

41. I can be sure that if I need legal or medical help, my race will not work against me.

42. I can arrange my activities so that I will never have to experience feelings of rejection owing to my race.

43. If I have low credibility as a leader I can be sure that my race is not the problem.

44. I can easily find academic courses and institutions which give attention only to people of my race.

45. I can expect figurative language and imagery in all of the arts to testify to experiences of my race.

46. I can chose blemish cover or bandages in "flesh" color and have them more or less match my skin.

47. I can travel alone or with my spouse without expecting embarrassment or hostility in those who deal with us.

48. I have no difficulty finding neighborhoods where people approve of our household.

49. My children are given texts and classes which implicitly support our kind of family unit and do not turn them against my choice of domestic partnership.

50. I will feel welcomed and "normal" in the usual walks of public life


by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 9:59 PM
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by JENN on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:30 PM

 sidesplittinglaughterthats pretty funny shit.

by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:33 PM

Quoting dustinsmom1:

 sidesplittinglaughterthats pretty funny shit.

have you read the replies? Just curious.

by JENN on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:37 PM
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Quoting Veni.Vidi.Vici.:

Quoting dustinsmom1:

 sidesplittinglaughterthats pretty funny shit.

have you read the replies? Just curious.

 No I havent. Multitasking w/ dinner, chicken parm and homemade garlic parmesan breadsticks. Trying to Cafemom and get dinner on the table lolol. Bu ti will later :)

by Jenn on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:43 PM
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 Good Lord. I only read to #12, but every one of them could just as easily apply to members of another race. I'm white, but I have darker colored skin year-round. I look like a mix of something. I get asked now and then by those brave enough "What nationality are you?" 

However, I do not recall ever being treated differently because of my skin color.

by AllieCat on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:47 PM

Good article.

Many will bypass it.

by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:48 PM
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a lot of this is crap.

by Ruby Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:51 PM
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 Having read this list of Peggy's many many times now...I ask the following:

1.) Why is it so important for the average white american to acknowledge and see this privilege?

2.) What CAN the average white american DO to change ANY of these privileges?

by Ruby Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:52 PM


Quoting dustinsmom1:


Quoting Veni.Vidi.Vici.:

Quoting dustinsmom1:

 sidesplittinglaughterthats pretty funny shit.

have you read the replies? Just curious.

 No I havent. Multitaking w/ dinner, chicken parm and homemade garlic parmesan breadsticks. Trying to Cafemom and get dinner on the table lolol. Bu ti will later :)

 I am making stuffed mushrooms, first time ever. How daring of me. Enjoy your fowl.

by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 6:22 PM
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I think the most heartbreaking example of white privilege, not listed in the editorial, is that of "Missing White Woman" syndrome, the phenomenon whereby crimes against whites, bonus if they're children, pretty, female, or any combination thereof, are reported on in the media and given more attention by law enforcement and the public, while similar cases involving minorities go virtually unnoticed.

I'd add this one to it: If I or my blond-haired, fair-skinned child were to go missing, I could have every assurance that the news media would be reporting on it 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I could be assured that there would be strangers holding vigils for my child, I could be assured that everyone in the country with access to a TV, newspaper or billboard signs, would know my or my child's face.

"There is something undeveloped about parents who demand respect. Obviously, they have failed to inspire love in their children, and so they demand an inferior substitute. Parents who are really fair and square with their children do not require repsect. If you want to be respected by your child, act in such a manner that the respect comes naturally - which means deservedly - and not because your child fears reprisal." - A.S. Neill

by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 6:31 PM
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Wondering if she picked a number and then made stuff up to fill in the number...most of these were nonsense...
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