Many know that for a long time we had a whole houseful here. It was Bill , b, my oldest dd, her 2 kids, her boyfriend , a long term family friend and me.
J, the friend, moved out last yr and is doing well and we survived financially.
The time has come for my dd to go. I know she will be ok financially as she just got a raise and its likely she will be running the store she works in before long. Her boss is having fertility treatments and wants to stop working and have a baby so DD will be doing fine financially. I am very happy for her.
It has been hard all living together. It will be much easier and quieter around here, I am wise enough to know that but boy am I going to miss those kids. She is going to stay in the area and I think I will still be watching them a bit but they have been here always so its going to be a mixed bag for me lol
Financially its gonna be pretty damn tough. Dont come in here telling me to get a job lol I have a very small window of what I can earn without affecting hubbys hc.
So hubby who has wanted the house to himself is now not dealing well with the reality of that.
He is not behaving well. For those who may not know he is sick. He has a lot of masses in his lungs that are inoperable but slow growing. As of the last scan the growth has subsided for now. He had a lot of bleeding in his lungs last fall but that is better too.
If he keeps on the path he is on he will become abusive and I will have to leave or make him leave, How do you leave a dying man? That is my confusion.
I am sure there will be those who say I shouldnt have shared any of this here.
I am sorry. I spend time with you ladies here and to an extent some of you deserve to know whats up with me,
How far you go in life depends on your being: tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of both the weak and strong. Because someday in life you would have been one or all of these. GeorgeWashingtonCarver