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Posted by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:37 AM
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This story was shared by a friend on FB.  After reading it, I was so struck by the story of these two men and depth of their love and commitment to each other I feel compelled to share it here.  


Rick and Dick Hoyt: Team Hoyt


The inspiring story of Rick and Dick Hoyt (Team Hoyt) was originally published in Sports Illustrated. After reading this incredibly moving story of transformation between a father and his son, don't miss the four-minute video of this amazing love story available here. May we all find inspiration both within and outside of ourselves every day to be the very best we can be.


Strongest Dad in the World
Rick Reilly for Sports Illustrated

I try to be a good father. Give my kids mulligans. Work nights to pay for their text messaging. Take them to swimsuit shoots.

But compared with Dick Hoyt, I suck.

Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars – all in the same day.

Dick's also pulled him cross-country skiing, taken him on his back mountain climbing and once hauled him across the U.S. on a bike. Makes taking your son bowling look a little lame, right?

And what has Rick done for his father? Not much – except save his life.

This love story began in Winchester, Mass., 43 years ago, when Rick was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain-damaged and unable to control his limbs.

"He'll be a vegetable the rest of his life," Dick says doctors told him and his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old. "Put him in an institution."

But the Hoyts weren't buying it. They noticed the way Rick's eyes followed them around the room. When Rick was 11 they took him to the engineering department at Tufts University and asked if there was anything to help the boy communicate. "No way," Dick says he was told. "There's nothing going on in his brain."

"Tell him a joke," Dick countered. They did. Rick laughed. Turns out a lot was going on in his brain.

Rigged up with a computer that allowed him to control the cursor by touching a switch with the side of his head, Rick was finally able to communicate. First words? "Go Bruins!" And after a high school classmate was paralyzed in an accident and the school organized a charity run for him, Rick pecked out, "Dad, I want to do that."

Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described "porker" who never ran more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five miles? Still, he tried. "Then it was me who was handicapped," Dick says. "I was sore for two weeks."

That day changed Rick's life. "Dad," he typed, "when we were running, it felt like I wasn't disabled anymore!"

And that sentence changed Dick's life. He became obsessed with giving Rick that feeling as often as he could. He got into such hard-belly shape that he and Rick were ready to try the 1979 Boston Marathon.

"No way," Dick was told by a race official. The Hoyts weren't quite a single runner, and they weren't quite a wheelchair competitor. For a few years Dick and Rick just joined the massive field and ran anyway. Then they found a way to get into the race officially: In 1983 they ran another marathon so fast they made the qualifying time for Boston the following year.

Then somebody said, "Hey, Dick, why not a triathlon?"

How's a guy who never learned to swim and hadn't ridden a bike since he was six going to haul his 110-pound kid through a triathlon? Still, Dick tried.

Now they've done 212 triathlons, including four grueling 15-hour Ironmans in Hawaii. It must be a buzzkill to be a 25-year-old stud getting passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a dinghy, don't you think?

Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? "No way," he says. Dick does it purely for "the awesome feeling" he gets seeing Rick with a cantaloupe smile as they run, swim and ride together.

This year, at ages 65 and 43, Dick and Rick finished their 24th Boston Marathon, in 5,083rd place out of more than 20,000 starters. Their best time? Two hours, 40 minutes in 1992 – only 35 minutes off the world record, which, in case you don't keep track of these things, happens to be held by a guy who was not pushing another man in a wheelchair at the time.

"No question about it," Rick types. "My dad is the Father of the Century."

And Dick got something else out of all this too. Two years ago he had a mild heart attack during a race. Doctors found that one of his arteries was 95% clogged. "If you hadn't been in such great shape," one doctor told him, "you probably would've died 15 years ago."

So, in a way, Dick and Rick saved each other's life.

Rick, who has his own apartment (he gets home care) and works in Boston, and Dick, retired from the military and living in Holland, Mass., always find ways to be together. They give speeches around the country and compete in some backbreaking race every weekend, including this Father's Day.

That night, Rick will buy his dad dinner, but the thing he really wants to give him is a gift he can never buy. "The thing I'd most like," Rick types, "is that my dad sit in the chair and I push him once."


Sports Illustrated Issue date: June 20, 2005, p. 88


(This last bit was part of the piece I read on FB and I LOVE the message.  It's one I myself need to strive to remember, and strive to fulfill.)  

There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. So, love the people who treat you right. Think good thoughts for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is part of LIFE...Getting back up is LIVING...Have a great life. 

I hope you all have a great Sunday!

If you want to learn more about these two men you can read more here:  http://www.teamhoyt.com/

And you can watch a short video of them here: http://www.personalgrowthcourses.net/video/best_dad

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romalove
by Roma on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:40 AM
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Thank you for sharing.  May I suggest keeping it in mind and reposting on Father's Day?

katy_kay08
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:40 AM
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That's a great idea.  

I read it to my husband and we watched the video together.  With tears in his eyes my husband said "I want a Team Hoyt shirt".  

Quoting romalove:

Thank you for sharing.  May I suggest keeping it in mind and reposting on Father's Day?


edelweiss23
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:43 AM
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Darn onions!!!


Someone is cutting them in my room again!!!
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Veni.Vidi.Vici.
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:44 AM

very moving!

romalove
by Roma on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:45 AM


Quoting katy_kay08:

That's a great idea.  

I read it to my husband and we watched the video together.  With tears in his eyes my husband said "I want a Team Hoyt shirt".  

Quoting romalove:

Thank you for sharing.  May I suggest keeping it in mind and reposting on Father's Day?


Your husband is apparently more sentimental than mine is LOL

ashellbell
by shellbark on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:48 AM
That's the sweetest story ever. Tears are falling out of my face.
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Euphoric
by Thumper kid spanks on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:50 AM

 What an amazing story.

katy_kay08
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 10:51 AM


Quoting romalove:


Quoting katy_kay08:

That's a great idea.  

I read it to my husband and we watched the video together.  With tears in his eyes my husband said "I want a Team Hoyt shirt".  

Quoting romalove:

Thank you for sharing.  May I suggest keeping it in mind and reposting on Father's Day?


Your husband is apparently more sentimental than mine is LOL

my husband is quite sentimental, yet to look at him you would never guess it.  

Sekirei
by Nari Trickster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 11:01 AM

*hunts for ninjas cutting onions in room*


I have read this one before and it always makes me smile. What an awesome dad :3

quickbooksworm
by Silver Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 11:03 AM
That's such a great story! And their times to finish those races floors me... I'm a runner and have done triathlons. Its hard enough just to finish, much less pushing/pulling someone else. Amazing.
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