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Wife Beating In Islam, No More Than 10 Blows!

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Maybe one day women will be able to have basic human rights. Do you think it can happen or do you think customs that are older than dirt will continue forever? 

by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 7:19 PM
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Chelsey191
by Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 3:52 PM
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LillyJDv3.0
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 3:53 PM
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I have known one. When the other men and women in our community found out, they helped her leave him, the men moved all of her furniture and everything into an apartment they found for her, and they helped her find a job and helped her financially until she was on her feet. You'd think if it really was something that was acceptable, nobody would have cared about her husband hitting her.

Quoting stacymomof2:

Thank you.  It is all about those gross Muslims this week, I guess. :(

I have never known a Muslim man who has ever lifted a finger against his wife.  I'm sure there are some that do, unfortunately it is a problem everywhere.


Quoting TruthSeeker.:

 That's strange. None of the Muslim women I know are treated like dirt. They are cherished and treated quite wonderfully.

Quoting Ladybugmama86:

 Did you know that in GA (savannah) you can beat your wife on Sunday on the courthouse steps, as long as you beat her with a rod no bigger then your thumb? Its in the citys rules.

But I do feel very bad for these women, but all islamic women are treated like dirt and a lot of muslim women that I have known.... It is very sad.

 



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slashteddy
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 3:55 PM
So let's focus on Islam and how "horrible" they treat their women, but ignore the fact that far more women are killed in the U.S. by husbands/brothers/et al. than in Muslim "honor killings."
StarburstKisses
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:26 PM


Suuureee. Just because it doesn't happen to you, or your friends doesn't mean that this isn't real, and doesn't happen to other women. There are PLENTY of stories from women around the world who are in this religion, married to men who treat them like this. It's sad, and even more so is you trying to defend it.

Quoting muslimahpj:


Quoting godsgirl26:

I feel so bad for these women. This is one reason I DO NOT ReSPECT men like this.

I dont need you to feel bad for me. This whole thing is bullshit.



StarburstKisses
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:27 PM

Suuureee. When was the last time a little girl was killed by her parents by acid in the face because she looked up at a man?


Quoting slashteddy:

So let's focus on Islam and how "horrible" they treat their women, but ignore the fact that far more women are killed in the U.S. by husbands/brothers/et al. than in Muslim "honor killings."



muslimahpj
by Ruby Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:43 PM

When are you going to speak out against all the christians who abuse their wives and try to stop them from practicing their religion? There are plenty of women in the US who are abused every day by their husbands and they identify as christians. What are you going to do for them?

I have more rights and protections as a muslim woman than I ever did as a christian woman and my 2 ex christian husbands were worthless assholes who treated me horribly. 

Quoting StarburstKisses:


Suuureee. Just because it doesn't happen to you, or your friends doesn't mean that this isn't real, and doesn't happen to other women. There are PLENTY of stories from women around the world who are in this religion, married to men who treat them like this. It's sad, and even more so is you trying to defend it.

Quoting muslimahpj:


Quoting godsgirl26:

I feel so bad for these women. This is one reason I DO NOT ReSPECT men like this.

I dont need you to feel bad for me. This whole thing is bullshit.




StarburstKisses
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:57 PM


I'm not Christian. I haven't seen one chrisitan who said that the bible dictates them to beat their wives if they misbehave because their husbands have to discpline them. I've yet to meet a man or women who was christian who practiced "beating ettiquette". The difference between domestic abuse and the abuse that takes from islam religion, is just that - Some of those people are either, raised that way, been beat themselves, etc. Taking drugs and high off their ass, missing their drugs, drunk off their ass, having withdawls from their luqior, etc. Whereas these people tell us they do it because of their religion, because they believe they're actually honoring their wives by doing this. They're both beating their wives, both are wrong. I don't think you're going to see the point I'm making though.

There are women who are beat around the world by their spouses, men females, etc. of different faiths. The difference? Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism, Juddism (as far as I know), don't tell their followers that to honor their wife they need to beat their wives to submit. Anyway you shave it, that's barbaric. Usually people who do it, who aren't doing it out of faith like some followers (imo most followers) or islam, do it because of alcohol, drugs, or they're from a broken home where they were abused. Usually those people are taught it's wrong, buuuttt they just don't give a shit. Whereas...These people who beat their wives believe this is how you honor them, meaning --- this is what you do. Instead of buying flowers and chocolate and being a good gentleman and husband to your wife and not harming a hair on her, you beat her. See the difference? Like I said, not Christian bbuuutt pretty damn sure no Christian is taught, "From the bible this is what and how we're suppost to honor our wives". 

Quoting muslimahpj:

When are you going to speak out against all the christians who abuse their wives and try to stop them from practicing their religion? There are plenty of women in the US who are abused every day by their husbands and they identify as christians. What are you going to do for them?

I have more rights and protections as a muslim woman than I ever did as a christian woman and my 2 ex christian husbands were worthless assholes who treated me horribly. 

Quoting StarburstKisses:


Suuureee. Just because it doesn't happen to you, or your friends doesn't mean that this isn't real, and doesn't happen to other women. There are PLENTY of stories from women around the world who are in this religion, married to men who treat them like this. It's sad, and even more so is you trying to defend it.

Quoting muslimahpj:


Quoting godsgirl26:

I feel so bad for these women. This is one reason I DO NOT ReSPECT men like this.

I dont need you to feel bad for me. This whole thing is bullshit.






muslimahpj
by Ruby Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 5:04 PM

There are lots who do. You must live under a rock.

Why dont you find all this stuff in the Qur'an and show it to me. I have already asked the op to do it, so, how about you too?

Blah,blah blah, keep reading islamophobe sites. 

Quoting StarburstKisses:


I'm not Christian. I haven't seen one chrisitan who said that the bible dictates them to beat their wives if they misbehave because their husbands have to discpline them. I've yet to meet a man or women who was christian who practiced "beating ettiquette". The difference between domestic abuse and the abuse that takes from islam religion, is just that - Some of those people are either, raised that way, been beat themselves, etc. Taking drugs and high off their ass, missing their drugs, drunk off their ass, having withdawls from their luqior, etc. Whereas these people tell us they do it because of their religion, because they believe they're actually honoring their wives by doing this. They're both beating their wives, both are wrong. I don't think you're going to see the point I'm making though.

There are women who are beat around the world by their spouses, men females, etc. of different faiths. The difference? Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism, Juddism (as far as I know), don't tell their followers that to honor their wife they need to beat their wives to submit. Anyway you shave it, that's barbaric. Usually people who do it, who aren't doing it out of faith like some followers (imo most followers) or islam, do it because of alcohol, drugs, or they're from a broken home where they were abused. Usually those people are taught it's wrong, buuuttt they just don't give a shit. Whereas...These people who beat their wives believe this is how you honor them, meaning --- this is what you do. Instead of buying flowers and chocolate and being a good gentleman and husband to your wife and not harming a hair on her, you beat her. See the difference? Like I said, not Christian bbuuutt pretty damn sure no Christian is taught, "From the bible this is what and how we're suppost to honor our wives". 

Quoting muslimahpj:

When are you going to speak out against all the christians who abuse their wives and try to stop them from practicing their religion? There are plenty of women in the US who are abused every day by their husbands and they identify as christians. What are you going to do for them?

I have more rights and protections as a muslim woman than I ever did as a christian woman and my 2 ex christian husbands were worthless assholes who treated me horribly. 

Quoting StarburstKisses:


Suuureee. Just because it doesn't happen to you, or your friends doesn't mean that this isn't real, and doesn't happen to other women. There are PLENTY of stories from women around the world who are in this religion, married to men who treat them like this. It's sad, and even more so is you trying to defend it.

Quoting muslimahpj:


Quoting godsgirl26:

I feel so bad for these women. This is one reason I DO NOT ReSPECT men like this.

I dont need you to feel bad for me. This whole thing is bullshit.







StarburstKisses
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 5:16 PM

I haven't read any islamaphobe sites you're talking about. I've seen islamic men however, like videos posted here, with men who talk about it. I've seen videos of men from Egypt and Iraq, who talk about things like this. I don't live under a rock. Lots who do what? Christians who claim it's in the bible to beat your wives? I'll admit I haven't read the whole book, and stoped going to church relativly young, but I haven't heard anything there that states men should honor their women by beating them. Or maybe you meant the jewish religion, or buddhists, or hindus, or something else? As far as I know, they don't have videos advocating for it like I've seen for the islamic religion. Are there people of all faiths who beat their wives? I'm sure there are. However, how many religions advocate to honor their wives by beating them? As far as I know, only islam. I haven't read the quaran, so I can't tell you where it's written. I am partial to thinking the mind set of beating your wife is something they get by the area they're raised. Most places as far as I know in the U.S. look down strongly on this type of thing. Whereas in Iraq maybe, definitly Egypt, it's different.


Quoting muslimahpj:

There are lots who do. You must live under a rock.

Why dont you find all this stuff in the Qur'an and show it to me. I have already asked the op to do it, so, how about you too?

Blah,blah blah, keep reading islamophobe sites. 

Quoting StarburstKisses:


I'm not Christian. I haven't seen one chrisitan who said that the bible dictates them to beat their wives if they misbehave because their husbands have to discpline them. I've yet to meet a man or women who was christian who practiced "beating ettiquette". The difference between domestic abuse and the abuse that takes from islam religion, is just that - Some of those people are either, raised that way, been beat themselves, etc. Taking drugs and high off their ass, missing their drugs, drunk off their ass, having withdawls from their luqior, etc. Whereas these people tell us they do it because of their religion, because they believe they're actually honoring their wives by doing this. They're both beating their wives, both are wrong. I don't think you're going to see the point I'm making though.

There are women who are beat around the world by their spouses, men females, etc. of different faiths. The difference? Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism, Juddism (as far as I know), don't tell their followers that to honor their wife they need to beat their wives to submit. Anyway you shave it, that's barbaric. Usually people who do it, who aren't doing it out of faith like some followers (imo most followers) or islam, do it because of alcohol, drugs, or they're from a broken home where they were abused. Usually those people are taught it's wrong, buuuttt they just don't give a shit. Whereas...These people who beat their wives believe this is how you honor them, meaning --- this is what you do. Instead of buying flowers and chocolate and being a good gentleman and husband to your wife and not harming a hair on her, you beat her. See the difference? Like I said, not Christian bbuuutt pretty damn sure no Christian is taught, "From the bible this is what and how we're suppost to honor our wives". 

Quoting muslimahpj:

When are you going to speak out against all the christians who abuse their wives and try to stop them from practicing their religion? There are plenty of women in the US who are abused every day by their husbands and they identify as christians. What are you going to do for them?

I have more rights and protections as a muslim woman than I ever did as a christian woman and my 2 ex christian husbands were worthless assholes who treated me horribly. 

Quoting StarburstKisses:


Suuureee. Just because it doesn't happen to you, or your friends doesn't mean that this isn't real, and doesn't happen to other women. There are PLENTY of stories from women around the world who are in this religion, married to men who treat them like this. It's sad, and even more so is you trying to defend it.

Quoting muslimahpj:


Quoting godsgirl26:

I feel so bad for these women. This is one reason I DO NOT ReSPECT men like this.

I dont need you to feel bad for me. This whole thing is bullshit.









godsgirl26
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 7:08 PM
I've watched how men treat their women on a history channel and it was pretty bad.


Quoting muslimahpj:


Quoting godsgirl26:

I feel so bad for these women. This is one reason I DO NOT ReSPECT men like this.

I dont need you to feel bad for me. This whole thing is bullshit.

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