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Posted by on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:45 PM
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Disclaimer: I am already fully aware of the fact that this post will probably die, while ones about transgendered men in girl's bathrooms, etc will thrive into the hundreds...

But I'm still posting it! Best cause I think that THIS is really news, the kind we as women and mothers should be aware of, and maybe even discuss. 

But yeah...doesn't really lend itself to salacious *debate*...



College Rape Victim Faces Expulsion for Speaking Out

A sophomore at the University of North Carolina (UNC) is facing potential expulsion and other consequences from her school for what the college calls “intimidating” behavior. But the “intimidating” behavior may be that the student spoke out to the press about the man who raped her.

As the blog Jezebel highlights, Melinda Manning, the former assistant dean of students at UNC, and other students “filed a complaint [last month] with the U.S. Department of Education's Office of Civil Rights on behalf of themselves and 64 other unnamed sexual assault survivors, alleging that university officials pressured Manning into underreporting cases.” The complaint also alleges violations of laws under the “Campus Sexual Assault Victims' Bill of Rights, the Clery Act and the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA), and equal opportunity mandates” from federal civil rights law.

Now one of the students who was a party to the complaint, named Landen Gambill, is being investigated by the school’s “Honor Court,” which is tasked with reviewing allegations of misconduct on campus. The student alleges the charge results from her talking to the media.

Gambill had spoken out to the press about her awful experience reporting sexual assault at the school she attends. Gambill says she was verbally and physically abused by her long-term boyfriend. After the relationship ended, she had to deal with stalking, threats and harassment from the ex-boyfriend. When she pressed charges at the Honor Court, she says she had to answer humiliating questions.

“The woman student said to me, ‘Landen, as a woman, I know that if that had happened to me, I would've broken up with him the first time it happened. Will you explain to me why you didn't?'" Gambill explained to The Daily Tar Heel, a student newspaper at UNC, in December 2012. The court also “implied that I was emotionally unstable and couldn't be telling the truth because I had attempted suicide.”

Gambill added: “It's incredibly clear that those people had no idea what sexual assault is, what consent is. They were not only offensive and inappropriate, but they were so victim-blaming. They made it seem like my assault was completely my fault.”

10 days after news of the federal complaint Gambill and Manning filed broke, “Landen received an email from Elizabeth Ireland, the Graduate & Professional Schools Student Attorney General, who wrote that she ‘received a report of a possible violation of the Honor Code on which you are listed as the reporting party,’” Jezebelnotes.But Gambill says she did nothing wrong--she hasn’t even named her rapist, who lives across the street from her.

And then last Friday, Gambill received another e-mail from Ireland that said that sufficient evidence existed to refer the case to the Honor Court, though Ireland also said that being charged does mean she is guilty. The charges include “disruptive or intimidating behavior that willfully abuses, disparages, or otherwise interferes” with a student that “adversely affect their academic pursuits, opportunities for University employment, participation in University-sponsored extracurricular activities, or opportunities to benefit from other aspects of University Life.”

If the Honor Court finds Gambill guilty of “intimidating” her rapist, she could face a slew of consequences, including: loss of privileges on campus; a grade penalty; a written assignment; probation or suspension; and expulsion.

A preliminary Honor Court meeting with Gambill has taken place. Jezebel reports that  the student “asked whether she could have violated the Honor Code simply by saying she was raped; the answer was yes.”

“This type of gross injustice is the reason why UNC students are speaking out and demanding answers,” Gambill told Jezebel. “The reason why i'm so vocal about this isn't because I just want justice for my case. I want to make sure no one else has to go through this if they want to report an assault to the university.”
 


***UPDATE: just saw this late today. Since it is directly related to the OP, it is posted below:


University Buried Rape Cases Because It Was Afraid of Revealing the Grades of Alleged Rapists?

Here’s the latest (and one of the lamest) excuses a university is using to explain why it didn’t report cases of campus rape to the police: the school was afraid of revealing the grades of the alleged rapists.

In the hierarchy of information, most would agree that it’s more important to know whether someone is a rapist than whether someone is failing Chem 100. But administrators at Oklahoma State University apparently misunderstood the Federal Education Rights Privacy Act, which grants students some rights to privacy about their grades and other information. Nevertheless, in a moment of over-zealousness, the university decided not to go to the police multiple times to report alleged sexual assaults, because it—it says—it was worried about violating this privacy act.

Oklahoma State's interpretation of the act was incorrect; the legislation allows administrations to call the campus police to investigate crimes. Whether the school genuinely misunderstood to act or used it as a shield to avoid reporting allegations of sexual assault remains unclear.

This news comes amidst the University of North Carolina continues to cause controversy over its efforts to intimidate a female student who has been outspoken about her sexual assault.

 

 Laura Gottesdiener is a freelance journalist and activist in New York City.

http://www.alternet.org/gender/university-buried-rape-cases-because-it-was-afraid-revealing-grades-alleged-rapists

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Goodwoman614
by Satan on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:51 PM

BUMP!

Goodwoman614
by Satan on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:51 PM

BUMP!

Goodwoman614
by Satan on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:51 PM

BUMP!

MsRkg
by Member on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:54 PM
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That is wrong on so many levels.

romalove
by Roma on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:56 PM
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People sure like to cover up their wrongdoing, don't they?

jllcali
by Jane on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:57 PM
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What. The. Fuck.

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slashteddy
by Bronze Member on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:57 PM
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...I don't know how to appropriately articulate my thoughts about this, but they're very angry.
purpleducky
by Silver Member on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:58 PM


Quoting MsRkg:

That is wrong on so many levels.

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eema.gray
by on Feb. 25, 2013 at 2:59 PM

BUMP!

Goodwoman614
by Satan on Feb. 25, 2013 at 3:01 PM
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Quoting romalove:

People sure like to cover up their wrongdoing, don't they?


It makes me worried for dd12. She is likely going to be early college bound. I don't like putting fear in a child, but when she does go off to university at 16, objectively looking at the record of pervasive examples like this...I can only conclude that she should be fearful.

and that pisses me off.

Misogyny - one of the biggest injustices.

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