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SO; being raped while drunk/high

Posted by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 12:55 AM
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Does it change or alter your opinion if a rape victim was drunk or high?



High as in heroin.


Please explain if the answer is yes.
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jadedcynic
by NerdyJen on Mar. 9, 2013 at 12:57 AM
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no. rape is rape. The sober person should ensure that the other is able to consent.

neveensaffron
by Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 12:59 AM
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Sometimes the sober person caused the victim to be in that state.
Like drugging her drink.


Quoting jadedcynic:

no. rape is rape. The sober person should ensure that the other is able to consent.


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jadedcynic
by NerdyJen on Mar. 9, 2013 at 1:00 AM
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Then it is definitely rape, and I feel there should be additional charges for slipping rufies.

Quoting neveensaffron:

Sometimes the sober person caused the victim to be in that state.
Like drugging her drink.


Quoting jadedcynic:

no. rape is rape. The sober person should ensure that the other is able to consent.



somuchlove4U
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 1:01 AM
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Nope. If someone is so far gone that she/he
have no idea what's happening, it's still rape!
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glitterteaz
by Ruby Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 1:01 AM
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nope no means no and if a person is un able to respond in a sober manner it means tread else where

tristahope
by Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 1:02 AM
Quoting jadedcynic:

no. rape is rape. The sober person should ensure that the other is able to consent.


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neveensaffron
by Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 1:03 AM
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I think it should be a mandatory life sentence.

If someone does that to their victim, then I highly doubt it's their first time. Or their last.


Quoting jadedcynic:

Then it is definitely rape, and I feel there should be additional charges for slipping rufies.

Quoting neveensaffron:

Sometimes the sober person caused the victim to be in that state.

Like drugging her drink.





Quoting jadedcynic:

no. rape is rape. The sober person should ensure that the other is able to consent.





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muslimahpj
by Ruby Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 1:04 AM
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Exactly.  The inebriated person should not have the blame placed on them because they are raped. No means No, whether you are drunk, high or sober. 

Being kidnapped, beaten and raped is not a justifiable because the victim may or may not have been under the influence during the time of the rape, etc.

Quoting neveensaffron:

Sometimes the sober person caused the victim to be in that state.
Like drugging her drink.


Quoting jadedcynic:

no. rape is rape. The sober person should ensure that the other is able to consent.



gigis1
by Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 1:07 AM
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rape is rape no matter the state that anyone is in

Momniscient
by Ruby Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 1:09 AM
Rape is rape
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