Why are you a Parent?and what if you weren't?
Did you plan to parent?
Something that you prepared for, plotted, planned and made happen?and after some effort (great or small) it happened and so here you are!
Or was parenthood thrust upon you either through a surprise/unexpected/unplanned pregnancy which when it happened, you stepped forward and so here you are!
But most importantly, what if you COULDN'T (due to infertility issues) to what lengths would you go to become a parent. When would you stop trying (both physical and financial)? Would you ever stop trying? What would be your limit where you would say- "no, I would never go there!" and accept your state as being a "non-parent"