I don't know how you can watch this man's story and still say you are against marriage equality. You must be an icy cold person. And yes I know they could have gotten will. I had a couple friends that had something simliar happen to them and I hear that all the time. But the bottomline is they shouldn't have to jump through hoops to get the same rights I was granted by signing a piece of paper! For me as the mother of a daughter who is a lesbain, this scares me and it makes me sad.
I don't always like or agree with person people I know choose to marry, but it isn't my decision to make and nobody else should get to decide who my daughter can and can't marry when the time comes.
(ETA: I decided to change to title because i didn't like the way I worded the orginal)