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You are pregnant, sure. But you are fat as well.

Posted by on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:37 PM
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When a woman, who is pregnant, is indeed fat as well, is it bullyish behavior to say so?



by on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:37 PM
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colins_mom
by Silver Member on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:38 PM
it depends I think in how you say it.
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LauraKW
by "Dude!" on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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I don't know about bullyish, but anytime you tell someone they're fat you're straddling the dickhead line.
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ms-superwoman
by Silver Member on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:39 PM

Most likely.

futureshock
by Ruby Member on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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Quoting FromAtoZ:

When a woman, who is pregnant, is indeed fat as well, is it bullyish behavior to say so?



I don't know about bullyish but it sure is mean and unnecessary.

futureshock
by Ruby Member on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:40 PM
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Most overweight people realize they are overweight. 

headingsouth13
by Member on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:40 PM

 this

Quoting LauraKW:

I don't know about bullyish, but anytime you tell someone they're fat you're straddling the dickhead line.

 

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Sisteract
by Whoopie on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:40 PM
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No one other than her Health care professional should be informing her of her weight issues- Guaranteed she knows that she's overweight.

I had the mean OBGYN- she would tell you how much weight you could gain- 25 lbs was the limit. I was happy with my first to gain less than 20 lbs.

Mama2JoshKatie
by Bronze Member on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:40 PM

YES

Ethans-mommy
by Member on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:41 PM
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Why say anything negative about a women's weight when's she's pregnant?
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FromAtoZ
by AllieCat on Apr. 19, 2013 at 11:42 PM
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Just checking.

I could never say this to some one.  I would hope that some one who has gained too much weight while pregnant would realize this, if not spoken to about it with their doctor, of course.

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