S/O Meeting violence with violence. *Edited*
How many of you feel that if a child is violent, either in manners or speech, that a good way to approach the subject, get a handle on it, deal with it, is by enacting violence against the kid?
Or do you not see grabbing a child by the collar and yanking them up, beating them, paddling them until their ass in on fire, or otherwise, as being violent? Don't tell me it does not inflict pain or cannot bring about harm to some one. Isn't that the point?
If you are going to allow some one else to do this to your child you must do so yourself, right?
EDIT: I am speaking more in the way of punishing your child, or disciplining them, or allowing others to do it for you, or along with you.
EDIT AGAIN: Hope this helps..........
Basically, I was asking if people feel it is beneficial to use violence against a child who is violent. If they should act out in a violent manner, it is appropriate to beat their ass, to use force as a way of punishment, a determent from acting that way again.