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Boy Scouts alternative program will ask youths to be sexually pure

Posted by on Jul. 10, 2013 at 7:41 AM
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Organizers said Tuesday that they were putting the final touches on a “character-development” national program for boys, in the most direct challenge to date to the decision by the Boy Scouts of America to allow openly gay boys to participate in Scouting.

The organization, which has not been named, will hold an organizing conference in Nashville, Tenn., in September ahead of an official launch Jan. 1. It aims to become a religion-based alternative to the Boy Scouts of America and was created in response to “tens of thousands” people, including Scouts, adult leaders and sponsoring groups, who were upset with the Boy Scouts‘ recent change in policy to allow openly gay members.

The mission of the new organization will be to “guide generations of courageous young men to honor God, lead with integrity, serve others, and experience outdoor adventure,” Rob Green, interim executive director, said Tuesday.

Although boys of all religions will be welcome to join the group, “adult leaders in the program — from the National Board level to individual unit volunteers — will adhere to a standard statement of Christian faith and values,” said Mr. Green, a former Boy Scout leader from Spartanburg, S.C.

On the hot-button issue of sexuality, the group will accept youths with same-sex attractions, but will ask all members to live a life of sexual purity.

Distracting behaviors or conduct will not be permitted — no rainbow flags or other “flaunting” of gay behavior, said John Stemberger, founder of OnMyHonor.net and a lead organizer of the new group.

Adults, including volunteers, will be asked to sign a standard statement of Christian faith and values.

For years, the Boy Scouts of America was viewed as “applied Christianity,” and words such as “morally straight,” “clean” and “reverent” were understood from the Christian worldview, Mr. Green said. The group will maintain that same approach by focusing on “sexual purity, rather than sexual orientation,” and declaring that “the proper context for sexual relations is only between a man and a woman in the covenant of marriage.”

The organization is emerging on the heels of the Boy Scouts‘ public fight over its membership policy that banned youths and adults who were “open or avowed homosexuals.”

The Boy Scouts underwent a full re-examination of that policy this year, and then asked some 1,400 Scout leaders to vote on a policy that would permit openly gay youths to be part of the organization but maintain the ban on homosexual adults.

The policy was approved by more than 60 percent of Boy Scout leaders in May and will go into effect Jan. 1 for the estimated 116,000 Scouting units.

Boy Scout leaders said after the vote that they had no plans to further review the issue and that they would not let the organization be “consumed” by a “single, divisive and unresolved social issue.”

“While people have different opinions about this policy, we can all agree that kids are better off when they are in Scouting,” Boy Scouts of America leaders said in a May 23 statement.

However, advocates for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender adults in Scouting quickly said the new policy didn’t go far enough and that they would not quit their efforts until the Boy Scouts also admitted adult homosexuals.

The full impact of the change in membership policy isn’t known. Many major chartering organizations, such as the Mormon church, said they were pleased, while others, such as the Assemblies of God, said they could not support the change and would be withdrawing from the Boy Scouts.

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snookyfritz
by Platinum Member on Jul. 10, 2013 at 8:39 AM
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Now that doesn't sound fun.  Though I do agree that Boy Scouts should be Sexuality Neutral.  I don't get the whole having to announce your sexual preference anywhere you go. 

Alysse24
by on Jul. 10, 2013 at 8:43 AM
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John Stemberger is a crazy person. He said that the Boy Scouts will be destroyed if they allow gay youths into their organization, yet he starts an organization and states that gay youths will be allowed to participate (yeah, right). On My Honor is a hate group in disguise. 

livelaughlov26
by on Jul. 10, 2013 at 8:45 AM
No..
tanyainmizzou
by on Jul. 10, 2013 at 8:47 AM
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Asking boys not to have sex makes them a hate group?


Quoting Alysse24:

John Stemberger is a crazy person. He said that the Boy Scouts will be destroyed if they allow gay youths into their organization, yet he starts an organization and states that gay youths will be allowed to participate (yeah, right). On My Honor is a hate group in disguise. 



UpSheRises
by Platinum Member on Jul. 10, 2013 at 8:52 AM
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FFS...why are those people so obsessed with children and sex? It's freaking creepy.

TranquilMind
by Platinum Member on Jul. 10, 2013 at 9:13 AM
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Apparently.

It would be great if we could get away from all this obsession with proclaiming sexuality and just get back to the fun part of organizations, like teamwork, games, activities, camping, learning how to start that fire without a match, etc


Quoting tanyainmizzou:

Asking boys not to have sex makes them a hate group?



Quoting Alysse24:

John Stemberger is a crazy person. He said that the Boy Scouts will be destroyed if they allow gay youths into their organization, yet he starts an organization and states that gay youths will be allowed to participate (yeah, right). On My Honor is a hate group in disguise. 




Alysse24
by on Jul. 10, 2013 at 9:17 AM

Hardly. But, since the Boy Scouts don't ask their members to have sex, then why the need to form this new group?

Quoting tanyainmizzou:

Asking boys not to have sex makes them a hate group?


Quoting Alysse24:

John Stemberger is a crazy person. He said that the Boy Scouts will be destroyed if they allow gay youths into their organization, yet he starts an organization and states that gay youths will be allowed to participate (yeah, right). On My Honor is a hate group in disguise. 





stacymomof2
by Ruby Member on Jul. 10, 2013 at 9:44 AM
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This was my reaction too. Why in the world is the focus of a children's group so sexified. (Yrs I made that word up.) Cant it just be about camping and badges?

Quoting UpSheRises:

FFS...why are those people so obsessed with children and sex? It's freaking creepy.

lizmarie1975
by Gold Member on Jul. 10, 2013 at 9:47 AM
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 If the Boy Scouts had a family dinner, is two men showing up with their child proclaiming sexuality? Is a teenage boy scout (whatever the proper term) talking about his male crush while other boys talk about their female crushes proclaiming sexuality? Why is it that the heterosexuals can be free to talk about their partners/crushes/families and it's ok but the minute a gay person just mentions their partner/crush/whatever...it's all about proclaiming sexuality?

Quoting TranquilMind:

Apparently.

It would be great if we could get away from all this obsession with proclaiming sexuality and just get back to the fun part of organizations, like teamwork, games, activities, camping, learning how to start that fire without a match, etc


Quoting tanyainmizzou:

Asking boys not to have sex makes them a hate group?



Quoting Alysse24:

John Stemberger is a crazy person. He said that the Boy Scouts will be destroyed if they allow gay youths into their organization, yet he starts an organization and states that gay youths will be allowed to participate (yeah, right). On My Honor is a hate group in disguise. 






Sekirei
by Nari Trickster on Jul. 10, 2013 at 9:48 AM


Quoting UpSheRises:

FFS...why are those people so obsessed with children and sex? It's freaking creepy.

because they are perverts

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