I read this in another group and it got me thinking. If you are married or in a committed relationship, do you ask your spouse or SO if you are allowed to go somewhere?
A woman wanted to go for a girls night out. Just something simple (no drinking,etc) and her dh didn't want her to go so she isn't.
That just floored me. Unless my dh had a very good reason, I wouldn't let him tell me where to go. I might listen to him but would never let him forbid me to do anything.
"No human race is superior; no religious faith is inferior. All collective judgements are wrong. Only racists make them" - Elie Wiesel