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Why are millennials leaving church? Try atheism

Posted by on Jul. 31, 2013 at 11:27 AM
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Why are millennials leaving church? Try atheism


(CNN) – Articles and books about why millennials are leaving Christianity often focus on what churches are doing "wrong."

They're anti-gay, anti-women, anti-science, anti-sex-education and anti-doubt, 
to name a few of the most common criticisms.

I don't disagree with those critiques, but there's another side to the story.

While Christians have played sloppy defense, secular Americans have been showing off some impressive offense, giving young Christians plenty of reasons to lose faith in organized religion.

For instance, atheists dominate the Internet, rallying to thriving websites and online communities in lieu of physical meeting spaces.

Even a writer for the evangelical magazine Relevant admitted that “While Christianity enjoys a robust online presence, the edge still seems to belong to its unbelievers.”

Atheists outnumber Christians on popular discussion forums like Reddit, where subscribers to the atheism section number more than 2 million. The Christianity section is not even 5% of that.

The Internet-based Foundation Beyond Belief, which encourages atheists to donate to charitable organizations, just celebrated raising $1 million for worthwhile causes. (Disclosure: I serve on its board of directors.)

Moreover, blogs and websites espousing non-religious viewpoints and criticizing Christianity draw tons of Internet traffic these days. For every Christian apologist's argument, it seems, there's an equal and opposite rebuttal to be found online. I call that "Hitchens' Third Law.”

READ MORE: Why millennials are leaving the church 

Christians can no longer hide in a bubble, sheltered from opposing perspectives, and church leaders can't protect young people from finding information that contradicts traditional beliefs.

If there's an open comment thread to be found on a Christian's YouTube video or opinion piece online, there's inevitably going to be pushback from atheists.

There has also been a push by atheists to get non-religious individuals to "come out of the closet" and let people know that they don't believe in God.

Among other things, this proves that anti-atheist stereotypes aren't accurate and, just as important, that atheists aren’t alone in their communities.

There's the Richard Dawkins Foundation's Out Campaign, with its Scarlet A badges.

There are atheist-encouraging billboards in 33 states financed by groups like the United Coalition of Reason.

There's even going to be an 1-800 hot line for people "recovering" from religion.

READ MORE: Atheists to start 1-800 hot line for doubters

And last year, an estimated 20,000 atheists turned out for the Reason Rally in Washington, a tenfold increase from the previous atheist rally in 2002.

But more than anything else, atheism's best advertisements may be the words of Christian leaders themselves.

When Pastor Mark Driscoll belittles women, Rick Warren argues against same-sex rights or Rob Bell equivocates on the concept of hell, we amplify those messages for them - and it helps us make our point.

(It goes without saying that the pairing of Pat Robertson and YouTube has been great for atheists.)

Pastors are no longer the final authority on the truth, and millennials know it.

Even if they hold Jesus' message in high esteem, the Bible as it has traditionally been preached by many evangelical pastors is becoming less and less attractive to them.

A 2012 study by the Public Religion Research Institute (PDF) showed that many Christians aged 18-24 felt that Christianity was hypocritical (49%), judgmental (54%) and anti-gay (58%).

In addition, Christianity Today reported last year that fewer than half of born-again Christians under 35 opposed same-sex marriage.

When millennials' pastors and hearts are going in different directions, church leaders should be worried.

Can churches win back the youth?

Barring a complete shift in beliefs, that may not be possible. Some of the proposed solutions seem ludicrous to millennial atheists like myself.

For instance, there's been talk of finding a better way to reconcile science and religion. Whenever that battle takes place, religion loses.

There are some questions we may never know the answer to, but for the ones we can eventually answer, the scientific explanation will devour the religious one. Mixing science and religion requires a distortion of one or the other.

READ MORE: Behold, the six tribes of atheism 

What about focusing on the message and life of Jesus?

While this sounds good philosophically, the myth surrounding Jesus is part of the problem with Christianity.

To believe in Jesus means believing that he was born of a virgin, rose from the dead and performed a number of miracles.

There's no proof of any of that ever happened, and atheists place those stories in the same box as "young Earth creationism" and Noah's Great Flood.

To be sure, if Christians followed the positive ideas Jesus had, we'd all be better off, but it's very hard to separate the myth from the reality.

In short, there are many reasons the percentage of millennials who say they've never doubted God's existence is at a record low, and nearly a quarter of adults under 30 no longer affiliate with a faith.

The church has pushed young people away, yes, but there are also forces actively pulling them in the other direction.

It appears that atheists and Christians are finally working together on the same task: getting millennials to leave the church.

Hemant Mehta blogs at The Friendly Atheist. The views expressed in this column belong to Mehta. 


- CNN Belief Blog

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ashleyrenee24
by Ashley on Jul. 31, 2013 at 11:32 AM

BUMP!

TranquilMind
by Platinum Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 11:36 AM
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 Everything about this article is wrong, and written from the perspective of an unknowledgeable outsider.

Simply mentioning Hitchens discredits the argument entirely.  He is an anti-theist, not just an atheist. 

The problem is that the church has lost its spiritual power by acclimating to the world, making church into an entertainment, not the other way around. 

IhartU
by Gold Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 11:38 AM
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Quoting TranquilMind:

 Everything about this article is wrong, and written from the perspective of an unknowledgeable outsider.

Simply mentioning Hitchens discredits the argument entirely.  He is an anti-theist, not just an atheist. 

The problem is that the church has lost its spiritual power by acclimating to the world, making church into an entertainment, not the other way around. 

 I totally disagree with you. Everyone has acess to knowledge right now and as more people educate themselves, the less hold the church has on them. The church tries to change to keep it's numbers but people are not so easily fooled now!

Sisteract
by Whoopie on Jul. 31, 2013 at 12:55 PM

Last night, I was having dinner with my 80 yo parents who are RCC, and we were talking about the Pope. My dad loves the new Pope because my dad believes that he is highlighting the problems created from within "the church"- My dad (my hubs, myself) have been driven away from the RCC because of the poor decisions make, internal strife and politicking of those in power- Our hope is that this new Pope can get rid of the rot and refocus insiders.

Goodwoman614
by Satan on Jul. 31, 2013 at 1:36 PM



Quoting TranquilMind:

 Everything about this article is wrong, and written from the perspective of an unknowledgeable outsider.

Simply mentioning Hitchens discredits the argument entirely.  He is an anti-theist, not just an atheist. 

The problem is that the church has lost its spiritual power by acclimating to the world, making church into an entertainment, not the other way around. 

De dee dee dee...


TranquilMind
by Platinum Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 1:38 PM

 I do hope this is the case.  He certainly is a breath of fresh air, being a normal guy who doesn't seem like a celebrity. 

Quoting Sisteract:

Last night, I was having dinner with my 80 yo parents who are RCC, and we were talking about the Pope. My dad loves the new Pope because my dad believes that he is highlighting the problems created from within "the church"- My dad (my hubs, myself) have been driven away from the RCC because of the poor decisions make, internal strife and politicking of those in power- Our hope is that this new Pope can get rid of the rot and refocus insiders.

 

Sekirei
by Nari Trickster on Jul. 31, 2013 at 1:42 PM

While I understand what the author is saying.. all of the information in the world cannot disprove every deity. 

TranquilMind
by Platinum Member on Jul. 31, 2013 at 1:42 PM
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 It depends on where you get your knowledge.

Proverbs 1:7 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.

Job 28:28 And he said to man,’Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom, and to turn away from evil is understanding.’”

James 1:5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God,who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

Daniel 2:21 He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings;he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding;

Psalm 119:66 Teach me good judgment and knowledge, for I believe in your commandments.

Proverbs 16:22 Good sense is a fountain of life to him who has it, but the instruction of fools is folly.



Quoting IhartU:


Quoting TranquilMind:

 Everything about this article is wrong, and written from the perspective of an unknowledgeable outsider.

Simply mentioning Hitchens discredits the argument entirely.  He is an anti-theist, not just an atheist. 

The problem is that the church has lost its spiritual power by acclimating to the world, making church into an entertainment, not the other way around. 

 I totally disagree with you. Everyone has acess to knowledge right now and as more people educate themselves, the less hold the church has on them. The church tries to change to keep it's numbers but people are not so easily fooled now!

 

redhead-bedhead
by on Jul. 31, 2013 at 1:43 PM
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"There has also been a push by atheists to get non-religious individuals to "come out of the closet" and let people know that they don't believe in God."


That is a huge reason. Before that everyone just kept quiet so that they weren't shunned by their communities. Attacks and shunnings still happen in America (a lot) but at a much lower rate than before.

ETA: I think this is contributing to more than just the growing number of Atheists, but also to number of Pagans who are coming out as well.

SpiritFortress
by on Jul. 31, 2013 at 1:47 PM

I agree with this article. 

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