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For those of you who shudder at the thought of a penis in the stall next to you, I have a question.

Posted by on Nov. 3, 2013 at 11:57 AM
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Transgender women don't exactly go around advertising who they are and none of the ones I've known irl look remotely like a man in drag. Add to that, I've known a few masculine looking women who in fact are biological women. Then you have the ones who've had the surgery, no penis, but still have masculine features.

So how would you even know who to be offended by?

by on Nov. 3, 2013 at 11:57 AM
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bellawomen
by Bronze Member on Nov. 3, 2013 at 11:59 AM
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I just assume everyone but me has a penis. No issues.
paganbaby
by Teflon Don on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:01 PM
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Lmao! 

Quoting bellawomen:

I just assume everyone but me has a penis. No issues.


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katemckenzie
by on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:04 PM
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I have no issues.

paganbaby
by Teflon Don on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:08 PM
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As long as I'm not sharing a stall, I don't either.

Quoting katemckenzie:

I have no issues.


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redbutterfly666
by Bronze Member on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:11 PM
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i have no issues with it

Coconutty4Hubby
by Bronze Member on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:12 PM
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I can honestly say I do not want a man in the stall next to me. If it is transgender, and he/she attributes to it,s feminine side, then it shouldn't bother me, because like you said, how would i even know?
FromAtoZ
by AllieCat on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:12 PM
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If there has been a penis in the stall next to me, I have never been aware of it.

If some one, any one, comes in to a restroom where I am, with or without my youngest with me, if they are there to cause issues, I am going to do something about it.  Otherwise, go pee and have a great day.

I guess I don't pay enough attention to determine who may be, or may not be, transgender.

kailu1835
by Ruby Member on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:12 PM
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I know, right?  I've met one transgendered male-female that couldn't have passed, but she was presurgery and was only a year or so into her transformation.  The others I only knew because I was told.

paganbaby
by Teflon Don on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:14 PM

Agreed. I would feel kinda weird about shgaring a bathroom with a man but a transgender women wouldn't bother me in the least.

Quoting Coconutty4Hubby:

I can honestly say I do not want a man in the stall next to me. If it is transgender, and he/she attributes to it,s feminine side, then it shouldn't bother me, because like you said, how would i even know?


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paganbaby
by Teflon Don on Nov. 3, 2013 at 12:15 PM
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This made me laugh,lol.

Quoting FromAtoZ:

If there has been a penis in the stall next to me, I have never been aware of it.

If some one, any one, comes in to a restroom where I am, with or without my youngest with me, if they are there to cause issues, I am going to do something about it.  Otherwise, go pee and have a great day.

I guess I don't pay enough attention to determine who may be, or may not be, transgender.


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