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Injured hunter chooses to end his own life support - do you agree with him making his own decision?

Posted by on Nov. 6, 2013 at 6:22 AM
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INDIANAPOLIS (AP) — Tim Bowers loved the outdoors. Hunting gave him the quiet time during which he could reflect on a busy life that included a new wife, a successful business and a baby on the way.

The Indiana man was enjoying that time while hunting for deer Saturday when he fell 16 feet from a tree and suffered a severe spinal injury that paralyzed him from the shoulders down. Doctors thought he might never breathe on his own again.

Confronted with that prognosis, Bowers' family made an unusual request of doctors at Fort Wayne's Lutheran Hospital: Could Bowers be brought out of sedation and told of his condition so he could decide for himself whether he wanted to live or die?

The doctors said yes, and Bowers made his choice.

"We just asked him, 'Do you want this?' And he shook his head emphatically no," his sister, Jenny Shultz, said of her brother, who was also often found hunting, camping or helping his father on his northeastern Indiana farm.

Courts have long upheld the right of patients to refuse life support. The American Medical Association says competent adults can craft directives stating if or when they want such systems withdrawn or withheld should injuries or illness leave them unable to make those decisions.

But it's rare after a devastating injury that a patient would get to make such a decision for himself. The heart-wrenching call to remove life support is more often left to surrogates who must speak for those patients. Even when a patient has outlined his wishes for end-of-life care, the decision can tear families apart.

Shultz, of Las Vegas, has seen it happen in her job. But her medical training also meant she understood the severity of her 32-year-old brother's injuries. His C3, C4 and C5 vertebrae were crushed. Though his brain was not injured, his body was irreparably broken. Surgery could fuse the vertebrae, but that would only allow Bowers to sit up. He would never walk or hold his baby. He might live the rest of his life in a rehabilitation hospital, relying on a machine to help him breathe. He'd never return to those outdoor activities that gave him such peace.

Shultz said her brother — the youngest of four siblings — wanted to talk but couldn't because the ventilator tube was still in place. She told him that if the tube was removed, they weren't sure how long he would live. But when she asked if he wanted the tube reinserted if he was struggling, he shook his head no.

Doctors asked Bowers the same questions and got the same responses. The tube came out Sunday.

The last five hours of Tim Bowers' life were spent with family and friends, about 75 of whom gathered in the hospital waiting room. They prayed and sang songs.

Through it all, Shultz said, her brother never wavered in his decision to die.

"I just remember him saying so many times that he loved us all and that he lived a great life," she said. "At one point he was saying, 'I'm ready. I'm ready.'"

Medical ethicists say it's rare for patients to decide on the spot to be removed from life support, especially so soon after an injury. But standard medical ethics practice is to grant more autonomy to patients, and courts have upheld their rights to decide on end-of-life care.

Patients often change their minds after they've had time to meet with spiritual advisers and family, said Art Caplan, director of the medical ethics program at New York University's Langone Medical Center in New York City.

Dr. Paul Helft, director of the Charles Warren Fairbanks Center for Medical Ethics in Indianapolis, said cases in which the patient makes the decision usually involve a debilitating illness such as Lou Gehrig's disease, which compromises the patient's body but leaves the mind intact.

Helft said patients have been legally and ethically permitted to make their own decisions on life support for several decades, due in part to court cases and the evolution of the practice of medicine, which places more emphasis on patients' rights.

"We give patients autonomy to make all kinds of decisions about themselves," he said. "We've recognized that it's important that patients have the right to self-determination."

Shultz said her family had an idea what her brother would want because he had previously talked with his wife, Abbey, whom he married Aug. 3, about never wanting to spend his life in a wheelchair.

She knows that not everyone would make the same call. But she's thankful her brother was able to make his own decision.

"No outcome was ever going to be the one that we really want, but I felt that he did it on his terms in the end," she said.

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Associated Press writer Tom Murphy contributed to this story.
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Woodbabe
by Woodie on Nov. 6, 2013 at 7:56 AM
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I absolutely believe in his right to make this decision.

cjsbmom
by Lois Lane on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:03 AM

His body, his choice. I can't say I'd want to live that way, either. 

idunno1234
by Silver Member on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:03 AM

God help me if that ever happened I would feel the same way as he did.  Although I have to admit that its uncomfortable for me to think that its okay to withhold life support, meaning in this case that he stops breathing.....not a pleasant way to die vs some less excrutiating alternatives. 

Carpy
by Ruby Member on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:04 AM
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Yes and we also know his family.

ambrossious2000
by Member on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:05 AM

That was so sad. I read it yesterday

FrogSalad
by Sooze on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:05 AM

 so do I.

Quoting Woodbabe:

I absolutely believe in his right to make this decision.

 


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dawnie1
by Bronze Member on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:08 AM

So very sad, but totally his decision.

rfurlongg
by on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:16 AM
I cannot possibly make a judgement on his choice. He was of clear mind and with the information given I suspect he made the decision he felt he had to make.
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by Milami on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:40 AM
I agree. If it were my husband he would make the same decision. He would live as a parapalegic but not a quad.

Quoting Woodbabe:

I absolutely believe in his right to make this decision.

Seasidegirl
by Gold Member on Nov. 6, 2013 at 8:42 AM

Of course.

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