The guy in this article has a two-year-old daughter and says being selfish makes him a better dadâhe goes out to clubs and spends tons of cash. "Iâm not living for her. Iâm living for me. Me me me." But by then end, I started to see his point. It made me want to start living a bit more that way. How do you all deal with DHs with busy social lives without resenting them?