Now we have been bless with a home which the landlord wants to sell to us and a car that was needed to get my hubby to work and yo run errands. Again i say bless cause none of this was by luck. Everything was good friday and saturday. They played, watched movies and caught up. They had not seen each othet since a week before school started in august. Come sunday and while in church he starts to call the girl names. Now we don't spank him, and i tried to hold my tongue because he kept calling her this name while i was talking to someone. I was so ashame. I don't want ppl to think this is how i am raising him to be. So i calmly told him to be quiet and stop it. After church i told hubby what he did and he was not happy at all.
When we got home they ate and went outside. While outside he told her not to speak to him anymore cause she got him in trouble. She was upset and ask to call her dad. I told her she didn't and went to ask him why was he being so mean. I get his fame line," i don't know." That's when i had to catch myself and told him no tv,laptop or game sysyem til futher notice. I also took plsying with a boy in our neighborhood from him.
I almost feel i went overboard but i can relate to the little girl. From the height to developing before others. So i would not teach him to be that way. Just don't know. I even threathen to cut his hair.
Do you think i went to far or not far enough?