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Do you teach your children life skills?

Posted by on Mar. 23, 2014 at 2:19 PM
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50 Things Everyone Should Know
How To Do

Self-reliance is a vital key to living a healthy, productive life.  To be self-reliant one must master a basic set of skills, more or less making them a jack of all trades.  Contrary to what you may have learned in school, a jack of all trades is far more equipped to deal with life than a specialized master of only one.

While not totally comprehensive, here is a list of 50 things everyone should know how to do.

1.  Build a Fire – Fire produces heat and light, two basic necessities for living.  At some point in your life this knowledge may be vital.

2.  Operate a Computer – Fundamental computer knowledge is essential these days.  Please, help those in need.

3.  Use Google Effectively – Google knows everything.  If you’re having trouble finding something with Google, it’s you that needs help.

4.  Perform CPR and the Heimlich Maneuver – Someday it may be your wife, husband, son or daughter that needs help.

5.  Drive a Manual Transmission Vehicle – There will come a time when you’ll be stuck without this knowledge.

6.  Do Basic Cooking – If you can’t cook your own steak and eggs, you probably aren’t going to make it.

7.  Tell a Story that Captivates People’s Attention – If you can’t captivate their attention, you should probably just save your breath.

8.  Win or Avoid a Fistfight – Either way, you win.

9.  Deliver Bad News – Somebody has got to do it.  Unfortunately, someday that person will be you.

10.  Change a Tire – Because tires have air in them, and things with air in them eventually pop.

11.  Handle a Job Interview – I promise, sweating yourself into a nervous panic won’t land you the job.

12.  Manage Time – Not doing so is called wasting time, which is okay sometimes, but not all the time.

13.  Speed Read – Sometimes you just need the basic gist, and you needed it 5 minutes ago. 

14.  Remember Names – Do you like when someone tries to get your attention by screaming “hey you”?

15.  Relocate Living Spaces – Relocating is always a little tougher than you originally imagined.

16.  Travel Light – Bring only the necessities.  It’s the cheaper, easier, smarter thing to do.

17.  Handle the Police – Because jail isn’t fun… and neither is Bubba.

18.  Give Driving Directions – Nobody likes driving around in circles.  Get this one right the first time.

19.  Perform Basic First Aid – You don’t have to be a doctor, or genius, to properly dress a wound.

20.  Swim – 71% of the Earth’s surface is covered by water.  Learning to swim might be a good idea. 

21.  Parallel Park – Parallel parking is a requirement on most standard driver’s license driving tests, yet so many people have no clue how to do it.  How could this be?

22.  Recognize Personal Alcohol Limits – Otherwise you may wind up likethis charming fellow.

23.  Select Good Produce – Rotten fruits and vegetables can be an evil tease and an awful surprise.

24.  Handle a Hammer, Axe or Handsaw – Carpenters are not the only ones who need tools.  Everyone should have a basic understanding of basic hand tools.

25.  Make a Simple Budget – Being in debt is not fun.  A simple budget is the key. (including banking)

26.  Speak at Least Two Common Languages – Only about 25% of the world’s population speaks English.  It would be nice if you could communicate with at least some of the remaining 75%.

27.  Do Push-Ups and Sit-Ups Properly – Improper push-ups and sit-ups do nothing but hurt your body and waste your time.

28.  Give a Compliment – It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give someone, and it’s free.

29.  Negotiate – The better deal is only a question or two away.

30.  Listen Carefully to Others – The more you listen and the less you talk, the more you will learn and the less you will miss.

31.  Recite Basic Geography – If you don’t know where anything is outside of your own little bubble, most people will assume (and they are probably correct) that you don’t know too much at all.

32.  Paint a Room – The true cost of painting is 90% labor.  For simple painting jobs it makes no sense to pay someone 9 times what it would cost you to do it yourself.

33.  Make a Short, Informative Public Speech – At the next company meeting if your boss asks you to explain what you’ve been working on over the last month, a short, clear, informative response is surely your best bet.  “Duhhh…” will not cut it.

34.  Smile for the Camera – People that absolutely refuse to smile for the camera suck!

35.  Flirt Without Looking Ridiculous – There is a fine line between successful flirting and utter disaster.  If you try too hard, you lose.  If you don’t try hard enough, you lose.

36. Take Useful Notes – Because useless notes are useless, and not taking notes is a recipe for failure.

37.  Be a Respectful House Guest – Otherwise you will be staying in a lot of hotels over the years.

38.  Make a Good First Impression – Aristotle once said, “well begun is half done.”

39.  Navigate with a Map and Compass – What happens when the GPS craps out and you’re in the middle of nowhere?

40.  Sew a Button onto Clothing – It sure is cheaper than buying a new shirt.

41.  Hook Up a Basic Home Theater System – This isn’t rocket science.  Paying someone to do this shows sheer laziness.

42.  Type – Learning to type could save you days worth of time over the course of your lifetime.

43.  Protect Personal Identity Information – Personal identity theft is not fun unless you are the thief.  Don’t be careless.

44.  Implement Basic Computer Security Best Practices – You don’t have to be a computer science major to understand the fundamentals of creating complex passwords and using firewalls.  Doing so will surely save you a lot of grief someday.

45.  Detect a Lie – People will lie to you.  It’s a sad fact of life.

46.  End a Date Politely Without Making Promises – There is no excuse for making promises you do not intend to keep.  There is also no reason why you should have to make a decision on the spot about someone you hardly know.

47.  Remove a Stain – Once again, it’s far cheaper than buying a new one.

48.  Keep a Clean House – A clean house is the foundation for a clean, organized lifestyle.

49.  Hold a Baby – Trust me, injuring a baby is not what you want to do.

50.  Jump Start a Car – It sure beats walking or paying for a tow truck.

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Are there any you would add?


by on Mar. 23, 2014 at 2:19 PM
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kailu1835
by Ruby Member on Mar. 23, 2014 at 2:58 PM
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Pretty much all of this, except that I will not be teaching my children to flirt.

canadianmom1974
by Gold Member on Mar. 23, 2014 at 4:53 PM
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Some yes, some are beyond my kids ages, and some they could teach me.

Honestly I can't see them learning to drive a stick. I don't even know anyone who drives one, even my dad's tractor has an automatic transmission. So unless I take a manual for a test drive ... and I'm not about to teach someone to drive a standard on a test drive.

I do find it funny that they didn't have basic car and house maintenance on there.
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Sister_Someone
by on Mar. 23, 2014 at 4:59 PM
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I make sure to teach my kid all that is possible.

Off this list, I'm not able to teach him # 6, 7, 16, 30, 39, 47 and 48; for simple reason that I can't do those worth shit. I do make sure that he learns from other people what I cannot teach him myself, though.

stormcris
by Christy on Mar. 23, 2014 at 5:07 PM

I have seen people lose jobs over lack of being able to drive a manual. But, I think the overall reasoning is that there may come a time in your life that you will have to borrow a manual transmission vehicle and there are places and conditions where they become an absolute must.

Quoting canadianmom1974: Some yes, some are beyond my kids ages, and some they could teach me. Honestly I can't see them learning to drive a stick. I don't even know anyone who drives one, even my dad's tractor has an automatic transmission. So unless I take a manual for a test drive ... and I'm not about to teach someone to drive a standard on a test drive. I do find it funny that they didn't have basic car and house maintenance on there.


UpSheRises
by Platinum Member on Mar. 23, 2014 at 5:18 PM
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Identify local flora and fauna.

mcginnisc
by Member on Mar. 23, 2014 at 5:18 PM
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Some of those are not exactly appropriate yet...but, I will make sure they know how to do a lot of those...

I've never had to end a date, so I would not be able to teach that one...flirting? I've only ever been with my Dh,sooooo..that could be a problem for me. Drive a stick? Sure... I could..if I had one.. I know how to drive one, but I have an automatic as does DH. 

Claire


" I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 

stormcris
by Christy on Mar. 23, 2014 at 5:21 PM

That is a really good skill.

Quoting UpSheRises: Identify local flora and fauna.


UpSheRises
by Platinum Member on Mar. 23, 2014 at 5:24 PM
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What you can eat and what you cant...what you shouldnt even touch...pretty important stuff.

Quoting stormcris:

That is a really good skill.

Quoting UpSheRises: Identify local flora and fauna.

funny_girl3
by Member on Mar. 23, 2014 at 5:29 PM
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I don't know about all of these.  My oldest knows how to prepare a few simple meals, like french toast, scrambled eggs, spaghetti, he knows how to hardboil eggs.  He's 11 and he's learning how to do laundry too.  I'm pretty sure my husband will teach the kids car stuff.

squeekers
by Bronze Member on Mar. 23, 2014 at 5:31 PM

 I like this so much I printed it out to put up at home.

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