How do you feel about pornography? Do you and your partner watch it?
Do you think it harms, helps or has no effect on relationships?
Should the government regulate pornography or do you believe it falls under the category of free speech?
You know what before I had 3 girls I did not care either way but now I don't like it. These are someones daughters, mothers, cousins, nieces. I know they sign up for it but look at most of there ages and most of them are on drugs to. Thet are ruining there lives though they think they will be glamorous. But they are only famous to pervs and they make normal women look like we can not perform normally to some men because they watch that crap so much they believe that's what a real women should do in bed.
If your into it I would guess it would be okay in your relationship but if nit it would be poison because like I aid before the man expects his women to act lke them.If it was up to me it would be done away with hell there is no speech in porn just moaning.
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I see nothing wrong with pornography. My husband and I do occasionally watch it together, and I don't care if he watches it without me. I do have a different view of sex than many others, I do not see it as a sin or existing primarily for procreation, so pornography to me is just sex in front of an audience. I would never do it (in front of an audience i mean) but I would not judge those who do. I will not watch abusive pornography, or anything with "weird" fetishes. Do I want my kids to grow up to do porn? Of course not. I want them to do something that benefits the world, and I do not think that pornography has a beneficial purpose.
I think porns effect on relationships depends on the people in the relationship. If one spouse does not approve, I think it could be harmful. For some relationships, porn stimulates sexual activity where a sex life is faltering.
Should the government regulate it? To some degree, yes. But only as far as mandating STD tests, and mandatory age varification.
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How do you feel about pornography? I watch it once in awhile. Doesn't bother me as long as it's not the way freaky stuff or the sick out of the norm stuff
Do you and your partner watch it? Well when I did have someone we did watch it occasionally
Do you think it harms, helps or has no effect on relationships?Well I think it just depends on the people. You have people who are addicted to it and spend money like crazy on it. Then you have people who are offended by it. so I think it really depends on the people
Should the government regulate pornography or do you believe it falls under the category of free speech? Government already does enough. they need to regulate other things then porn ut maybe they should have someone make sure these girls are of age and not 16 or 15 or younger
I feel it is wrong. It brings others into the bedroom where only the husband and wife should be. It degrades women and causes men and women to sin. When I was married to my ex, he brought it into our home. I was away from the Lord and we watched it together. I feel that is one of the reasons our marriage failed. He ended up cheating on me.
However I do not feel the government has a place in deciding if it is there or not. Maybe keeping it out of the hands of children.
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How do you feel about pornography? Do you and your partner watch it?
I think it's perfectly fine, and in fact I wrote Erotic stories for over three years. I'm not one for watching porn, I'd rather read it but I'm sure he'd rather watch it. We have never watched it together because we just don't have that kind of time and I actually don't think I'd feel comfortable watching it with him.
Do you think it harms, helps or has no effect on relationships?
If your partner feels uncomfortable with you watching it and asks you to stop and you continue with it, then THAT may be a problem. Also, if you care more aboutt he porn than being physical with your partner, then I see that as a problem as well.
Should the government regulate pornography or do you believe it falls under the category of free speech?
I think it should be regulated to keep it out of the hands and eyes of children.
How do you feel about pornography? Do you and your partner watch it? I think it's fine as long as it isn't the sick stuff, normal is fine. Yes, me & my hubby watch it together sometimes, spices things up for us.
Do you think it harms, helps or has no effect on relationships? As long as noone is addicted to it, which I understand is possible, I think it can help.
Should the government regulate pornography or do you believe it falls under the category of free speech? Government should stay out of it.
Quoting athenax3:
Porn is like a gun, the people using it seem to determine it's detriment or benefit, in and of itself I don't think it's inherently bad.
You said it better than I could. I was just going to say 'eh' lol.
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How do you feel about pornography? Do you and your partner watch it? My husband and I have watched it together in the past, but with three active kids, it's hard to be able to actually have THAT much time alone to watch a movie like this. I am perfectly fine with pornography provided it's not done in secret by one of the spouses/partners and doesn't take the place of a normal, healthy sexual relationship.
Do you think it harms, helps or has no effect on relationships? Just depends on the individual couple. If someone has a porn addiction and/or it's actually taking the place of sexual relations with their spouse/partner, then it's definitely harming their relationship. But for some couples, it can help when the love making becomes boring and they need a little spice in the bedroom.
Should the government regulate pornography or do you believe it falls under the category of free speech? I think the government should keep an eye on it and for the simple fact that, as with almost anything, it can be abused. By "abuse," I site kiddie porn, bestiality, etc.
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How do you feel about pornography? I personally don't like it. It's a major turn off and find it slightly degrading to the participants.
Do you and your partner watch it? No.
Do you think it harms, helps or has no effect on relationships?
It depends on the relationship. I would, for one, be pissed if I found out DH watched.looked at it. Mainly because he's always said he doesn't really like it anyways.
Should the government regulate pornography or do you believe it falls under the category of free speech? What speech? Far as I know there's no speech in porn. I think they should regulate it just not sure exactly what those regulations should be. Maybe only one porn store per city. It's sickening driving back in my hometown because there are at least 10 porn shops within 10 minutes of each other.
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