Poll
Question: Would you let your SO have a bachelor party at a strip club?
Total Votes: 134
A friend of mine and I were having this discussion earlier today, as to if it was "fair" to let him have a bachelor party at a strip club.
If normally you do not allow him to, is this one time ok since its a "special occasion"?
No. That is not the type of people/couple we are.
Sidenote: I don't think there is ever an OK time to do that. This is one of the reasons I was impressed with my DH. He didn't get into all that. I think it's classless and tacky. So does he. We have each other. We don't need outside "entertaintment" to have a good time.
That's why I was so impressed with my DH, too. His unconditional devotion to me started wayy before our wedding.
Quoting xChasingxAmyx:
No. That is not the type of people/couple we are.
Sidenote: I don't think there is ever an OK time to do that. This is one of the reasons I was impressed with my DH. He didn't get into all that. I think it's classless and tacky. So does he. We have each other. We don't need outside "entertaintment" to have a good time.
I have never said 'no' but dh has never gone either. He has never really asked, not seriously. Back when we were first married a lot of his buddies were also getting married and dh never went to the bachelor parties. They were always at strip clubs, and dh thinks strip clubs are trashy. Like I said he had the option and HE said no. I never even had to. He didn't even go to his own brothers bachelor party for the same reason.
No this is not something that would ever be OK with me. But, this is also something that I do not have to worry about, because strip clubs are not my hubby's scene. We both find them to be tacky and classless and neither one of us would be interested in going to one.
I just don't see what the point of all of that is. If he(My DH) wants sex, he has it right next to him. Same with pornography. Why look or watch something, when you can get the real thing?
I am so glad I don't have to worry about him looking at other women. I have enough body issues with my own self. I would hate to have to start comparing myself to airbrushed whores! LOL!
Quoting dosthepost:
That's why I was so impressed with my DH, too. His unconditional devotion to me started wayy before our wedding.
Quoting xChasingxAmyx:
No. That is not the type of people/couple we are.
Sidenote: I don't think there is ever an OK time to do that. This is one of the reasons I was impressed with my DH. He didn't get into all that. I think it's classless and tacky. So does he. We have each other. We don't need outside "entertaintment" to have a good time.
my husband and i have both just entertained each other... even if it is just for a special occasion i dont think that a husband should be going to a strip club. thats something for single men (w.o gf's) to go to if they want but not a husband especually if he truely loves his wife and kids. im not gona tell my husband what he can and cant do but he knows how i feel about strip clubs.
My husband actually had 2 bachelor parties...the week before the wedding and the night before the wedding. Both times they went to a bunch of strip clubs lol! I didnt care, b/c I trust him. He can go to buddies bachelor parties at strip clubs if he wants as well. Its just not a big deal to me. He doesnt go on a normal basis though; since we've been together the only time he's been to one has been his bachelor parties. I might feel differently if he frequented the clubs, but he doesnt so its not an issue.
And also, I dont "allow" or "not allow" my husband to do anything. I'm his wife, not his mother.
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- atrix0921
on Jan. 26, 2010 at 2:31 PM