Okay, so hubby has this friend (I'll call him Mike).... well, he's always been kinda awkward. I don't really know how to explain it without comming off rude, so I'll just say it... he has short man syndrom.... he feels the need to compensate for everything and is just kinda weird.... well anyways, we went to another friend's b-day party saturday night. We are all standing there talking and then Mike starts talking to me and decides he's going to start touching me stomach (almost 18 weeks pregnant) and he's like rubbing it going oh do you know what it is yet? I'm really good at this and starts moving his hand down some like on the bottom side of my stomach, like where I button up my jeans.... well, I moved back quickly and he seemed offended and then he just sort of walked away. Then not even 10mintues later, I'm sitting tlaking to some people and he comes up and trys to sit on my lap, and I'm like OH HELL NO, and my hubby's like the only people allowed to sit on her lap are me and the kids, and he trys to sit down again and says well, "I'm like a kid, hehehe" in a sexual inuendo way.... Is this all TOO CREEPY or what???
My hubby didn't say anything about it after we left, but he had been drinking quite a bit, so probably didn't even notice, but SERIOUSLY.... what a CREEPO!!! Should I say something to hubby???
If it's a 1 time occurence I say drop it. If he ever does it again then yes say something.
Personally I would have punched him a good one. he is a creep. I hated it when people tried to touch my belly. At one point I had a shirt that said "Touch the belly lose a hand."
My hubby didn't see the belly rub thing and didn't hear the comment... so he really had NO idea anything happened!
Quoting AM-BRAT:
I can't believe your DH would ever let that happen, but if you're gonna hang out with weirdos that drink, and your DH drinks too, what do you expect? I don't know what to say, other than don't hang out with him. Or have your DH say something.
The thing is, I normally kinda avoid this guy.... even talking to him kinda creeps me out... but he came up to me Saturday night and I was trying not to be rude when he first came up to me.... it just totally took me by suprise!
Quoting Firewoman33:
If it's a 1 time occurence I say drop it. If he ever does it again then yes say something.
I was just telling someone last week how NO ONE ever touches my belly (during any of my pregnancies), even my family, cause I'm just not the approachable kind of nice pregnant person I guess..... but I guess I was wrong about that!
Quoting canthaveboys1:
Personally I would have punched him a good one. he is a creep. I hated it when people tried to touch my belly. At one point I had a shirt that said "Touch the belly lose a hand."
You didnt mention if "mike" was drinking too or not.
if he was drinking: Definetely not worth bringing up
If he wasnt and you know for sure he wasnt: and it was a 1 time occurance, then again, I would let it slide. But if he has done creepo things in the past to you, and if he does it again, then its time to say something IMO.
Some people just have no regards for other peoples' personal space, not their fault necessarily, its just how they are. =/
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- orange4agua72
on Feb. 9, 2010 at 3:46 PM