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worst vday? venting maybe...

Posted by on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:08 PM
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so valentines day is 3 days....and well i think this will be the worst one i've ever had! i am 35 weeks pregnant and i'm not in a relationship with the father but we talk on a daily basis and see eacother every other day. anyway yesterday he tells me he went out and bought me a surprise and that Friday night (tonight) he was taking me to the movies and to dinner. well we got into a small fight this morning but i didnt think too much of it. then at like 3 this afternoon i get text saying that he was talking to someone new and he was done talking to me. i feel heartbroken and left behind. then this girl had the nerve to text me and tell me that she found it funny that she had him and i didnt and that i just needed to move on b/c he didnt care anything about me. yea it may sound like a bunch of drama...but i just want the best for my daughter. anyone else having a bad vday weekend or been in this situation? just feeling down and need someone to talk to....


thanks for reading ladies :)

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BaileynMe
by Platinum Member on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:12 PM

My Dh won't be home on Vday, and even if he was, I don't doubt that it would be just like every other day. As much as I want to celebrate it with him, he always talks about us not having money (we don't, but still, flowers aren't THAT expensive.) 

bugg2
by on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:19 PM

BUMP...anyone else?

phenomenallyMe
by on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:26 PM

I know that it hurts now but you deserve way better.  He sounds like an idiot and that girl is super immature.

We aren't doing anything big this year for Valentines Day, just spending it home with the kids.  I think that the holiday is way overrated.


I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much.  Mother Teresa
Juliasmommie225
by on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:27 PM

i wasnt preggo but my bf <well now x> of 3 years made plans for vday with me well i got all ready and was so pumped only to find out that he was cheating on me with what i thought was my best friend! he called and said that he had to keep his little brother well i went with my mom and dad to dinner and found them at the same place!!! after that we have never een 2gether its so hard im so sorry you have to deal with that stress and drama!!

bugg2
by on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:27 PM

i completly agree! Valentines Day is way too overrated!

Quoting phenomenallyMe:

I know that it hurts now but you deserve way better.  He sounds like an idiot and that girl is super immature.

We aren't doing anything big this year for Valentines Day, just spending it home with the kids.  I think that the holiday is way overrated.


dosthepost
by on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:29 PM

Can we just say that my "worst vday" was way worse than this... That girl needs her hair ripped out, I'll give you that. But times like this are not times for dwelling on what you DON'T have. Look at what you DO have... you DO have a healthy baby inside you, that you will be having in a matter of a month. No drama, or bad vday can take her/him away from you. Look AHEAD, not behind, and don't stoop to the level of a pig headed whore like that.

ashli488
by Silver Member on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:29 PM

im sorry to hear that...my hubby wont be home for vday or our 1st anniversary next sunday or he might not even be hom efor the birth of our 1st born...hes in the army and is currently deployed... but i am really sorry...

kavp84
by Member on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:31 PM

This will be my worst Valentines Day... 

Also, about your baby's father... don't forget to get child support, hmmm? ;) He sounds like a tool.

corbenleesmama
by on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:32 PM

You deserve WAY better!! He sounds like a jerk and she apparently has nothing better to do than harass you just think if she had the guts to text you that what she will do to him if/when he cheats on her!! You are a beautiful woman and its better for you and your baby!!

We aren't doing anything for V-day spending it with our kids!!

deann66
by Silver Member on Feb. 12, 2010 at 10:51 PM

Its just me and the kiddos. Nothing big planned...oh except moving furniture back into their proper rooms! Yay! Lots of fun! LOL. I know it sucks right now but Mr. Right will come along and this will all be forgotten. Its his loss! And the new girl sounds just like what he deserves!

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