17 year old son has betrayed me and then moved in with his Dad
My 17 yo just graduated and immediately started getting wild on drugs and hanging out with wild friends. The moment I started cracking down on him he went to stay with his absent father (up until he turned 13) . His father agreed to set up a small family meeting to talk to my son. Then, 30 minutes before everyone was to arrive to meet, my eldest son advised me that his ???FATHER??? called him and said, "Try to get out of going to your Mom's because she's going to jump on both of you about some stuff!" He had also told my 17 yo the same. My eldest also said his Father said he wasn't coming and he was supposed to bring my 17 yo along with him. So, needless to say, we didn't get to have a family meeting with my 17 yo. He will be 18 in August but in the meantime I'm so scared something terrible is going to happen. If I go to pick my son up he will fight against me and the only way would be to have the police make him. With his mouth and attitude that won't be good. He needs a lot of prayer and I need a lot of strenght and peace of mind. If you have any advice or related story I would love to hear it.
In March, my 17 yo had an auto accident and it wound up being his fault. I person was airlifted and stayed in ICU for 2 days and in a regular hospital room. My son and the other driver were taken by ambulance to be checked out but everyone wound up being ok.
Prior to the accident, I had bought him the pickup and insurance, but we wre waiting for a replacment title before we could register it. SO, I specifically told him, " DO NOT DRIVE IT!!!" It was at his grandparents where he was working on it to fix some minor things. I had also told his grandparents, " The ONLY thing I ask is PLEASE DO NOT LET HIM DRIVE THE TRUCK!!!"
Well, low and behold, his grandpa sent him to the next town to get something and to drive his new little pickup. Unfortunately, this was the day he had the accident.
We went to court today over the hearing of who's fault it was and it turned out to be my sons fault and they also charged him for not having it registered. Well, with him being 17, I am liabled for ALL that he does, so our car insurance ins't going to cover it, due to it not being registered. Well you can imagine what the medical bills are, not to mention the other drivers totalled vehicle. So, they are going to garnish my wages and take my land and home. My son doesn't even care at all that he's cause me all this pain and trouble..Please pray about this!!!