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I need advice...may be TMI

Posted by on Dec. 9, 2010 at 1:31 PM
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So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. All i had heard from him when we very first started out is how he is a very sexual person. He was very sexual with me the first 4mos . Since about 5 mos into our relationship our sex life started to decline now i am lucky to get it once a week. He says he has been there done that he really has no need for it like i do and when i ask for it makes him feel like i am forcing him...wtf. He has told me before that he did not feel i deserve it,i dont sexualy chrarge him,but he has great sex with me. Hes tired or not in the mood or just advoids me for a few days...sometimes i think he picks fights with me just so he dont have to have sex after he says he will.. I know i aam fat and prob not all that but he is 340lbs so he should not judge on that. also it seems that he will look at porn and jack off about 2x A week. I just dont get it any ideas?

           

by on Dec. 9, 2010 at 1:31 PM
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CullenLover
by on Dec. 9, 2010 at 1:44 PM

there has to be an underlying problem, b/c if for 4 months there wasnt a problem and now there is, it;s something he is dealing with

Kiwismommy19
by Diamond Member on Dec. 9, 2010 at 2:32 PM
I agree. Has he seen a doctor? Maybe he's depressed or there's a physical health issue? Good luck, I hope you figure something out!


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there has to be an underlying problem, b/c if for 4 months there wasnt a problem and now there is, it;s something he is dealing with


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PeaceMuch
by on Dec. 9, 2010 at 2:37 PM

 I agree sounds like something is going on..

Quoting CullenLover:

there has to be an underlying problem, b/c if for 4 months there wasnt a problem and now there is, it;s something he is dealing with

 

NearSeattleMom
by Gold Member on Dec. 9, 2010 at 7:32 PM

Well, it's not that unusual for sexual frequency to decline the longer you're in a relationship. Do you have concerns about the rest of your relationship?

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