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I found porn on my 11 yr old step daughters computer HELP !!!!!

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:18 AM
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Hi Moms,

I need help on this one, I have an 11 yr old step daughter she is a straight A student, very pretty, happy go lucky child, I was looking on her comp for a bedspread she had asked for and found EXTREMELY graphic porn ...of many variaties !!! I told her Dad and he has taken comp and cell phone away, but Im worried. i also found evedence of her being on porn chat sites. Im sick over this PLEASE GIVE ADVICE ASAP !!!!

by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:18 AM
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081499
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:21 AM

Sit down and talk to her.  Could they have been popups? 

irocksocks
by Member on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:22 AM
at 11, she was probably just looking at it, and was curious. I'd ask her about it
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KatherineM
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:24 AM
I would sit her down and have a very long chat about it and find out what's going on.
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MysonDillon
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:26 AM

Wow that is a scary situation. Is the computer in her bedroom? Kids should be monitored at all times while using a computer. Also you can block certain things as well. I say don't scream and yell at her but maybe talk to her one on one and ask her what's going on. As a parent it is our responsibility to protect our children from these types of things. Take the computer out of her room if it is in there.  

Beautifulmom513
by Bronze Member on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:29 AM

she is probably just curious about sex and all that. sit her down and just talk to her about it.

rdh4126
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:29 AM

We had a big talk last night . The problem is she has done this before actually last yr. the porn was more graphic than anything I have ever seen and Im 50. There were probably 20 different sites and she has been looking at them on a daily basis for several weeks !!! I think this goes beyond curiosity. Especially the chat sites....The language she was using was very graphic and well beyond what an 11 yr old girl should even know.

canthaveboys1
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:30 AM

 Yikes! I have an 11 year old, and I would have come unglued.

DDTSMommy
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:31 AM
She needs counseling perhaps. It can become an addiction...she isn't on a good path. I would get professional help.
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nellyb118
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:32 AM
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I'd look into a therapist...if she's done it before then obviously it's a real problem for her. I'd be scared of what type of ppl she was talking to & what kind of situations she could get herself into with older men. She needs some 'real' help b/c at 11 I didn't ever think about sex or even know porn existed.
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rdh4126
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 11:33 AM

No not popups there were about 20 different sites, some live, straight, gay and lesbian sites. close up and GRAPHIC !!!!

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