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I feel like a horrible mom.

Posted by on Feb. 20, 2011 at 11:46 PM
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I was giving my DD a bath tonight, i leaned over so she could give me a kiss. She stood up to give me a kiss, slipped and hit her chin on the side of the tub and bit a whole in her tounge. Not all the way threw, but it bleed alot. Im more tramatized than she is. But i cant help but think that this all could of been avoided
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Bethbeth
by on Feb. 20, 2011 at 11:48 PM

Oh, I'm sorry! Accidents happen. It's not your fault. She's going to be ok.

sarahjo2275
by on Feb. 20, 2011 at 11:49 PM

You are not a bad mom! She wanted to give you a kiss and that is nice. I say accidents happen. I am sure that you are an amazing mom!! Don't worry about what happened!!

ohmybaby
by on Feb. 20, 2011 at 11:56 PM

you are not a bad mom for this.  It was clearly an accident.  Try getting one of those bath mats that stay in the tub... they' re a pain to clean but keep slips like this from sending a child or adult to the ER for stitches.. or worse.

It reminds me of an accident my DD had when she was a year old.  I put her down for a nap in her crib and her woke up not long after and lost her balance.  She ended up biting through her lip.  I took her the the ER and they decided she needed a stitch or two.  I wasn't allowed in the room and when it was all said and done I was told they had her semi into a straight jacket and had two male nurses pinning her down and the Dr could only get one stitch in.... and a poor one at that because it was barely in and it didn't last a day :(  Poor girl was terrified of hospitals after that and unfortunately that is where we went to see her regular DR.  :(   it was awful! 

 

Sweets27
by on Feb. 20, 2011 at 11:57 PM

Ouch! My ds slipped in the tub the same way and he got a cut under his chin. I felt terrible too..

rbailey2414
by on Feb. 20, 2011 at 11:57 PM
Awwww poor baby!
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stockuponlove
by on Feb. 21, 2011 at 12:00 AM
You are not a bad mom.
Believe me.
We were out at dinner the other night. And my 15 mnth old DD was throwing a fit. So I took her out of the high chair and was letting her sit in the chair pushed up against mine. She friggin leaned over a smidge and fell off and onto the floor head first. Everyone looked at me. I scooped her up went to the bathroom and cried. She never cried but I sure did.
I felt like a terrible mother. But accidents do happen hun.
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popzaroo
by on Feb. 21, 2011 at 12:01 AM

This is only one in a loooooong line of accidents I'm sure. But that's just what it was--an accident, so don't beat yourself up about it. This proves that our babies can get hurt even when we are right there with them. I have one of those really long mats in my tub. I wouldn't be without it.

Mom2Ladybug
by on Feb. 21, 2011 at 12:02 AM
This morning the power went out which means our baby monitor was off. I woke up to a crying baby and thought it was the neighbors, I soon realized it was my DD. I haven't jumped out of bed so fast in my life. She was red and crying so loud. I felt like the worst mom in the world and had no idea how long she had been crying. Accidents happen and we need to remember that.
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yvonne37
by Silver Member on Feb. 21, 2011 at 12:04 AM

 Accident mamma.. they happen. My mom was zipping my daughter's coat and told me "i remember when you where 3 i zipped your coat and pinched your neck skin.. i even bleed"

When my daughter was born I was like a zombie for days, no sleep and breastfeeding constantly, so one night, my husband brought me water (cold) to drink, my DD was latched on in bed with me and i was holding the cup.. fell asleep and drenched my little newborn in ice cold water! i felt like such a bad mom.  want to hear more? lol

My husband carried her and was playing with her, he put her so high up that he bumped her head on a lamp.

I had to rush to the ER with my son (2 then) he needed stitches on his eyebrow.. I turned to do something and he climbed on a little car he had and the car slipped and he hit his head on the corner of a table.

I know how you feel, we think we can keep them from ever hurting themselves.. but believe me... accidents happen. :)  hope she is feeling better.

Twinkies2010
by on Feb. 21, 2011 at 12:11 AM

One of my 8 1/2 month old twins rolled off the mat we put on the floor for them while I was holding her sister today. It was only a 3 inch fall, but the sound of the thud when her head hit the floor still rings in my ears! She was fine...just scared her (scared me more!!!). Accidents happen....that's what I keep having to tell myself. :(
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