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Would you feel comfortable allowing your child fly on a plane alone?

Posted by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:18 PM
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 My S/O parents live in Massachusetts, and they visit when they can but since it gets so expensive to buy two or more tickets they would like us to put our son on the plane and fly up alone. He's 5 right now but we want him to be at least 6 before we do this. I do know that airlines have a program that the flight crew will watch your child and escort the child to the gate to be picked up on the other side, I also know that the ages start as young as 5 to be in this program. My boyfriend and his sibling flew all over the place by themselves when they were little. I just don't know though. I was 25 when I flew for the first time, and I wished I got to travel as a young child. Idk any advice?

Robyn blowing kisses

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mynameismuerte
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:20 PM
It's my understanding it's only on straight through flights at that age and it's not cheap. My 6 year old is not ready to fly alone.
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mamakenzi
by Kenzi on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:22 PM

Well DD is 4 so no.  I won't allow DD to fly alone until 7.  My mom worked for an airline and I started flying alone at 7.  We lived in Dallas and she worked in Houston.  So depending on how her days off went I would fly to Houston on the weekends.  Now that being said, it was different with me because my mom worked there so long she knew a lot of people and the crew knew I was an employee's kid. 

jabs54
by Platinum Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:48 PM
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 I really wouldn't trust the airline to not take their eyes off my child, hence a kidnapping threat.

mamaeagle216
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:52 PM
No way.
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FlyingMommy747
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:56 PM
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No No No...  I would not trush the airline to take care of a 6 year old.  Just do a google search of "airline looses child" and you would be horrified how many hits you will get.

MrsTBailey
by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 3:08 PM
No way!! It would have been fine 20-30 years ago but not now especially when there are many news stories about children getting kidnapped from everywhere; in public places like schools, stores, playgrounds to children being taken from your own backyard!! So 1,000 times NO!! That being said maybe you could help your SO can split the cost of two tickets for his parents to visit. :-)
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javamom12
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 3:14 PM

No, children should not fly alone.

Jadegirl1819
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 3:17 PM

My DD is 9 and there is no way I would do it.  I would wait until 15 or 16.

You could probably almost buy 2 tickets for the price it would cost you to send you child.

kristin_1984
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 3:24 PM
My husband is getting out of army, and me, my four kids, and my husband do not all fit in our honda civic. The thought went through my mind for a split second to let my oldest (8) fly alone but the thought was out of my mind as quick as it went into it. I decided to fly back, and i am taking my 1 month baby. Me, and my husband are just way to strict and worried to let her go alone. I would hate myself if something were to happen to her.
Jjsmommy03
by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 3:25 PM

sure why not my parents did it with us all the time ,specially me .i loved it and have many great memories . my parents also began to let me fly to foreign countries as soon as i turned 15 by my self. it was so much much i thank them so much for letting me do that n have that great experience 

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