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discussion on custody battle

Posted by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 4:54 PM
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interested in talking to anyone who in the middle of a custody battle in the state of Texas.

Posted by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 4:54 PM
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mamakenzi
by Kenzi on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:12 PM
I'm in Texas and been there, what's up?
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amonkeymom
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 6:59 PM

I'm not but welcome to the group!


 

Iamdone2012
by New Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 4:40 AM
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unfortunately, I was married to a master manipulator. After 17 years, he waited till my daughter turned 12, got tenure and then served me with divorce papers. 

For the next 6 months, he spent his time being the Disney land dad, building memories with my children, cleaning the house, cooking and being the man, I wish he had been for 17 years. The entire time, making me believe there was something to save.  He would get my hopes up,and then crush me. Making me an unstable mess. When we went to court for temp orders, I was a mess, I was losing my home, my life EVERYTHING. I had spent 12 years being a stay at home mom and now, I was forced with getting a full time job to support myself, unbelievable debt due to this divorce and the stress of my marriage falling apart. Yes I was a mess. Anyway, the judge gave him temp custody and gave me SOP. actually less then that, horrible moms see their kids more than I do.

He will not co-parent. My 5 year old son cries to see me, and he will not allow him even 5 extra minutes with me.  He spoils my 12 year old with material things, allows her full access to a cell phone, facebook, tv with no supervision and she is loving the freedom.

The court appointed counselor said, that when she has to make a decision on who to give primary custody to, she looks to the parent who will co-parent. Thats kind of hard when I never see my children.

So my question is... how do I get everyone else to see what a manipulative monster this man is?

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