My husband said this after 20 years of being married?
Well Ladies, I will try to make this short........ I change my under wear like 3 or more times a day and he said that he also never seen or heard that every time you use the toilet to do number 1 and 2 and so on that it needed to be wash or if not at home carry a baby wet wipes. I do all this...... I grew up this way and I try just to used a toilet paper but it feels wrong to me, so I always wash or carry a baby wipes. About the under wear I know there is nothing wrong with me changing a lot of times a day? what you ladies think?
I think the whole situation is weird. If you want to wash your ass 500 times a day I dont care, and he should be thankful that you keep it so clean for him.......
Quoting canthaveboys1:I think the whole situation is weird. If you want to wash your ass 500 times a day I dont care, and he should be thankful that you keep it so clean for him.......
lol........ thanks, i told him that too and what is weird for him that why everytime i pee I wash myself too 
I really don't know how to explain to him, I just told him is just me.......Ohhhhh my kids also do what I do.
Quoting canthaveboys1:I think the whole situation is weird. If you want to wash your ass 500 times a day I dont care, and he should be thankful that you keep it so clean for him.......
I completely agree. What does he care what you do to make yourself feel clean? Weird that he is bothered by it.
Quoting canthaveboys1:
I think the whole situation is weird. If you want to wash your ass 500 times a day I dont care, and he should be thankful that you keep it so clean for him.......
Good hygiene is a good thing. I don't understand why he would complain or even comment about you wanting a clean butt. That's just weird.
I think it's a good idea to use a butt wipe after going to the bathroom but I think it's kind of a waste of soap and water (laundry) to change underwear 3 times a day. If you are wiping yourself after using the toilet why do you have to change underwear?
I would be more confused as to why after 20 years he is bringing it up. sounds like hes nitpicking....the question is why?
I really don't know? but I think the longer a person is married we start asking stupid question, and not just doing that when I pee too I wash myself....... I can of thinking maybe is too much?
Quoting -PB:Good hygiene is a good thing. I don't understand why he would complain or even comment about you wanting a clean butt. That's just weird.
this is how I grew up, and I wash my delicates by hand and the soap I used is my body soap......... so it's not normal that I change my underwear 3 times or more a day?
Quoting jabs54:I think it's a good idea to use a butt wipe after going to the bathroom but I think it's kind of a waste of soap and water (laundry) to change underwear 3 times a day. If you are wiping yourself after using the toilet why do you have to change underwear?
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- Pherlyce
on Feb. 16, 2012 at 1:59 PM