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do you think this teenage girl is being molested?? i have a bad feeling she is!

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:40 PM
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i have known my roommate for less than a year and she has a younger sister who is 14 years old.

the man randomly showed up in there families lives and has completely taken over parenting the teen. she is constantly at his house getting gifts and hanging out with him. they were together for valentines day all day(she had school but he didnt make her go) her mother past away when she was very young her father lives in another state and she was legally adopted by there grandmother, i think her grandmother is egnoring the situation for convience or just doesnt want to see it happening. she spends the night at the 37 year old MANS house he supplies her with alcohal.

but the strangest things to me are the way the talk to each other and the way they fight! they fight like a married couple not father and daughter. she denies everything when we have asked her but  i was molested by my uncle and see the signs buying her gift sucking up to the family smooth talker. wealthy educated he also has a drinking problem.

i told my roommate that if she doesnt call cps i will but again i havent known this family long so i wana be 100% sure before i do. and make sure im not just reliving my molestation and seeing what i think is there,

please no bashing i just need honest opinions of what you mamas think is going on. am i being paranoid or is this really as fishy and it smells to me!!

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MAMAsnow91
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:47 PM
Bump
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marissaj125
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:49 PM

ugh wtf? I don't know. Sounds creepy. Confront the guy. idk

crwspringer
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:51 PM
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I think your suspicions are defiantly valid. Even if there is nothing going on it seems very inappropriate.
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2ninos4me
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:51 PM
Sounds weird and not ok at all
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pipers_mom
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:57 PM
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It doesn't sound like she's being molested. It sounds like she's willingly having a sexual relationship with him. Yes, I know due to her age it is illegal, but it does sound like she's doing it willingly. He's still scum for doing anything with a 14 year old...

Jennifer_57
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 11:04 PM
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Well hes supplying her alcohol..that alone is enough for CPS to get involved, and they would find it inappropriate.

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Dcccc
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 11:54 PM
Ha yeah I mean Ituition is great. If you sense flirting there's something
Shady going on. Your probably right. Tell your friend to get her out of there.


Quoting maloymay25:

i have known my roommate for less than a year and she has a younger sister who is 14 years old.


the man randomly showed up in there families lives and has completely taken over parenting the teen. she is constantly at his house getting gifts and hanging out with him. they were together for valentines day all day(she had school but he didnt make her go) her mother past away when she was very young her father lives in another state and she was legally adopted by there grandmother, i think her grandmother is egnoring the situation for convience or just doesnt want to see it happening. she spends the night at the 37 year old MANS house he supplies her with alcohal.


but the strangest things to me are the way the talk to each other and the way they fight! they fight like a married couple not father and daughter. she denies everything when we have asked her but  i was molested by my uncle and see the signs buying her gift sucking up to the family smooth talker. wealthy educated he also has a drinking problem.


i told my roommate that if she doesnt call cps i will but again i havent known this family long so i wana be 100% sure before i do. and make sure im not just reliving my molestation and seeing what i think is there,


please no bashing i just need honest opinions of what you mamas think is going on. am i being paranoid or is this really as fishy and it smells to me!!


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phoenixmom2011
by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 12:00 AM
I would call the police the next time she spends the night with him there is no reason for a 14 year old to spend the night with someone that age alone. If they are not the parent.
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nuts4scouts
by Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 12:01 AM
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No one should be giving a 14 year old alcohol.

Call CPS.


Quinn525
by Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 12:05 AM
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At 14 she is not an old enough to make a decision to have sex, that's why there are laws against it. Older men groom their victims, telling them that they love them, making it right. Call cps on this pedophile.

Quoting pipers_mom:

It doesn't sound like she's being molested. It sounds like she's willingly having a sexual relationship with him. Yes, I know due to her age it is illegal, but it does sound like she's doing it willingly. He's still scum for doing anything with a 14 year old...

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