ORIGINAL ..... The bio mom has full cutody and is there for her son. The father has a new girl friend (not married), but they just had a child. They are teaching the dads son from first relationship to call her mom.
What are your thoughts?
EDIT..... Thank you ladies for replying. Originally when I posted this, it was pure speculation. We were in the car and my son asked me if JANEDOE(SM) was Mom? I said, no she is is JOHNDOE JR's Mom. I am your Mom, she is JOHNDOE JR's Mom. What I wrote above is what my insticts told me might be happening, I was upset but I did not talk to the Bio Dad, we don't have a good relationship. We lived in the west coast, and I moved to the east coast about 4 months ago. The arrangment we made via the courts was I get him in the school year. He gets him in the summer. My son is about to turn 4, and this is his first summer away from home. His been gone for one week. When I have tried to talk to him we have not been able to coordinate a time. Finally I was able to talk to him yesturday and the first thing he told me on the phone was JANE DOE is Mom. I was so mad!!! Why are the already teaching my son this??? Their son is only 4-5 months he can not even talk. I asked SM if she was teaching my son to call her Mom and she said, yes. I asked her to stop and she told me the Bio Dad told her to, and I would have to talk to him and hung up. When I talked to Bio Dad he said, he always called his step mom/Mom and still does. (No he does not, he is such a liar. And to top it of, all he did was talk shit about her!!) Anyway. Point, they are going to continue to teach my son this, regardless of what I feel or say. I do not know what to do. The other thing is he said, my son is fine calling her Mom. That makes me sick to my stomach, he is so little he can tell him to call her poop and he would be happy to do so too. I worry about how this will effect my son.