Hello everyone I am new to CafeMom looking for some advice. I have a 6 week old newborn & her father has petitioned for visitation rights, which I'm not against. Here is the issue, he was not around my entire nor was he there for her birth, she didn't meet him until she was 4 weeks old & that has been the ONLY time he's seen her. We have been arguing because he feels like he should be able to just come & pick her up since she's his daughter however I feel like he needs to bond with her first. Am I wrong or asking for too much? He still hasn't came by to see her or have asked to see her & I have been very open with letting him know he is more then welcome to see her, he just can't pick her up without bonding with her. Please help!
on May. 5, 2012 at 3:18 AM