what would you do/what should i do to make him get it?
ok so i actually posted this in responce to another mom, but im curious what people would advice ME.
im tired of my husband smoking too. its really bad hear because he doesnt just smoke ciggaretts he smokes those black n milds that crystilize your lungs then hit your heart. its bad. i heard one black n mild =4 cigarretts. when i met him and married him he was not a smoker. he started up one day just when he would drink and now he smokes 3 a day. he has cut down to like 1 a day when he can thoguh. but i dont understand, he smokes inside. he makes sure hes not in the same room as our son but doesnt care if im there or not. he doesnt even open a window half the time. then i tell him i can smell it all over the house and he just gets upset and tells me im lying and being over dramatic. he wont even smoke outside. i wont leave my husband over smoking but it does hurt that he doesnt seem to feel that im telling the truth that its effecting our son. he also thinks its BS that you can get ill from second hand smoking. i had cancer and i got it under control but the docc said the more im arround smoke the more likely it will come back faster. i mean i still have a bit there but not enough for a surgury. i love my husband and i wish i could convince him that his smoking really is effecting our health and that it really does reach the back of the house.