DH and i have been together for 8 years. He has been paying child support to his ex gf the whole time. There is neither a paternity test to prove the child is his, nor a paternity aknowlegement document. She even states this in the court records. She has denied him a DNA test, and refuses to let him be a part of the child's life. Also, she did send him 1 picture of his "daughter" but my husband is native american with very strong dominate features. Black hair, dark brown eyes and a darker complexion. Even a cleft in his chin. His ex has the same color green eyes i have. The child in question has blonde hair, blue eyes, and very pale complexioned. Our 2 boys have light blonde to dark brown hair, and both if them. Have dark brown to black eyes and a darker complexion. Both of them even have a slight cleft in their chins. They never established paternity, or that he accepted responsibility for the child otger than signing the birth certificate form. He went back to work the following morning, and neither of them seen a notary. She admitted a year later that she cheated in him within the same week. Now, because hes been unemployed since march, and havent been able to send in any payments, they are threatening to revoke his drivers license and arrest him for failure to pay. They are aware of what his work pertains to, and to revoke hia license would prove both nonproductive, and irresponsible on the states part. Can the state be obtaining these payments illegally? Could they be coercing money from him by lieing to him about an akmowlegement form? He has called the hospital where the baby was born, the courthouse where they lived and where the baby was born and all 3 places say there is no such dilocument. But the state we live in says their is but has failed to produce the document.
Its unreal! His record for makong payments has been spotless the last 7 years. Any advice or thoughts?
on May. 5, 2012 at 7:57 PM