Whenever my baby's dad and I get into any sort of "fight", he runs to his "Mommy" and tells her, instead of talking it out with me first. She is extremely judgemental and says things to him about me to where he then has to stick up for me. (which he isnt very good at)
My mom is coming to visit for 17 days when I have the baby. She is staying at our place and I really dont want her to have to come to our apartment alone after hospital visiting hours. I think she will be uncomfortable. I know she'd do it if I wanted her to, but I am going to ask my Doctor if her AND my baby's dad can stay the night at the hospital with me. If she says no, I was going to just have my Mom stay and have BD go home for the night and come back the next day. Is that wrong of me? When I mentioned it to him, he seemed perfectly fine with it, then he talked to his Mom, told her, and she got all weird again and started judging me.
Every time he talks to her about me, he regrets it afterwards, but he still does it.
We are moving out of state in August to be closer to my family. He says his family plans to come visit us here as much as possible before we move, which i understand, but I'm going to be so uncomfortable. How do I deal with that? Any advice will be helpful!