I am not sure exactly when I lost control and became overwhelmed raising five children. My children do not listen, they talk back, they fight, they scream, and they tear up the house and refuse to help clean up. Their father is incarcerated and I don't have much help with my kids other than my friend that pops in when she can. I feel that I am on the verge of a breakdown. The constant chaos and mess makes me crazy. I work on room and they tear up another. I try to get them to help do something and they straight up ignore me or walk away like I wasn't even talking. My oldest is a boy, age 14, that has mental issues that he tries to use in his favor. I say lets clean up and he all of the sudden needs to walk away beause he is angry. My 9 year old daughter talks back to me, rolls her eyes, and yells and physically fights with the others. My 8 year old daughter is just lazy. She won't do a thing. My 7 year old mimicks the behaviors of my 14 year old and constantly beats up his younger brother. My 5 year old is the better behaved of the bunch but he whines and throws fits if things aren't in his favor. I have set up rules and consequences yet nothing works. I don't know what to do anymore. I think I am losing my mind. I didn't teach them to be like this. I am overwhelmed and stressed out. How do I get it together?