So my aunt and uncle moved out of state to come live closer to me which I was all for. I told my aunt in the beginning I cant have any drugs etc in my house or around my kids seeing as how before I knew I was pregnant with my first I was using and cps is aware of this because I came clean right when I found out and its been 4 years and Im still clean yay me, but anywho back to the issue, I started cleaning up and found their meth pipe and Im hurt. Im hurt because I stressed the fact it cannot be in my house. I dont get check ups or anything but out of respect and just plane common sense it shouldnt be here. I havent said anything just yet but then this morning they totally got into it some what in front of my kids, yelling and getting physical (maybe due to coming down), which with my past relationship with my 2 oldest kids dad theyve seen enough fighting and didnt need to see it again. Im helping them to get a place and a job that way they can get clean because there is nothing where Im at and even if there was I wouldnt know who to go to which wouldnt happen regardless. I want to confront them both on it. I know they dont have any drugs on them (naturally bec i started snooping) but having the pipe is still the same. How should i approach this because they are all the way on the opposite side of the country from california so its not like I can just say hey get out go home. I want them to know I dont appriciate it but at the same time its like I want to help without being a parent to them. What should I do or how should i set this conversation up to where we can avoid arguments?