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What do I do about this?

Posted by on May. 14, 2012 at 3:24 PM
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My parents are divorced and they don;t get along. My mother is planning to move away and she supposedly has a "friend" who is going to come get her, but she said if he does that he will also kill my father. She talks online all the time to her internet friends about how abusive my father was to her and us, but it's all lies. My mother was the abusive one. She abused me, my siblings, and my father. But she tells all these people that he was abusive and then she gives them her home address, my sister's home address (where my son and I are living), my brother's home address, and my grandmother's home address (where my father is living) and then they discuss killing my father. All of this is done on her computer and I've never seen it, but she has told my sister all about it. I believe that my mother really will try and kill my father because she's tried before. I don't know what to do about this. My sister doesn't want to say anything because she just wants our mother to leave and I don't know if I can because I've never seen or heard any of it myself.

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SuprMom08
by on May. 14, 2012 at 3:35 PM

gather evidence and confront her...tell her how serious you think this is and that you will take it to the police.


skittlebeans88
by Bronze Member on May. 14, 2012 at 3:38 PM
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Call the police. I'd hate myself if I knew my mom was maybe planning for my father to die because of her lies and never did anything about it. :(
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lilydoyle
by on May. 14, 2012 at 3:38 PM
i agree with ap
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LuLuRex
by Bronze Member on May. 14, 2012 at 5:24 PM

I would definitely call the police. A friend of mine father kept threatening his wife and then one day he shot her on her front porch with their 10 year old daughter watching. My friend's mom survived and regretted not taking actions years before when he was threatening her. 

lioness3e
by on May. 14, 2012 at 5:33 PM

If you feel there's enough proof to be given to the local authorities, I'd contact a detective and have them do an investigation. This isn't something to let slide, or mess around with. 

caro100
by on May. 14, 2012 at 9:31 PM

I would file a police report, show it to my mother and say if anything happens to my father, she will be the first one questioned.  Have your sister make some copies of the  email transmissionsand take them to the police.  She may get in trouble with conspiracy, to commit murder.

mamaeagle216
by Silver Member on May. 14, 2012 at 11:02 PM
Call the police. With evidence they can seize her computer. Offer to house sit or do some cleaning while she's out and go through her computer.
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justme91755
by Bronze Member on May. 15, 2012 at 12:19 AM

 If she is soliciting people to harm or kill your father and giving out personal information over the Internet she may be guilty of a crime already.  If you care, you and your sister should confront her and warn her how dangerousthis could be for anyone in your family with all the "crazies" out there. Someone might misinterpret  her "venting" and take it a step too far and she could end up in jail.  Her " friend" could be setting her up also, like that woman who was just charged with soliciting for murder for hire and the person set her up with the police ( too much TRUE TV at my workplace lol)

terri.a
by on May. 15, 2012 at 12:24 AM

Call the police, NOW.  There are way too many innocent people that could get hurt or killed.  Let the police decide if she might be a real threat. 

SissyAnn141
by on May. 15, 2012 at 3:36 AM
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Quoting justme91755:

 If she is soliciting people to harm or kill your father and giving out personal information over the Internet she may be guilty of a crime already.  If you care, you and your sister should confront her and warn her how dangerousthis could be for anyone in your family with all the "crazies" out there. Someone might misinterpret  her "venting" and take it a step too far and she could end up in jail.  Her " friend" could be setting her up also, like that woman who was just charged with soliciting for murder for hire and the person set her up with the police ( too much TRUE TV at my workplace lol)

        OMG !!!!!

                      I WOULD not even, speak to her.....PLZ Watch your back ♥♥♥♥

 

       WARN your DAD, keep her away- from your baby.

 

         MAKE COPIES, Get a Restraining Order.

     Take her threats "seriously" !!!!! ♥♥♥♥

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