Boyfriend advice..

A relationship takes two. Sounds like you are the only one trying. I would move on.

Um.. What? I didn't get a word of that.

Quoting kaysha:

A relationship takes two. Sounds like you are the only one trying. I would move on.

Thanks..

 Ok, from working with 80+ other guys in my shop for 10+ years here's what I can tell you.  If you haven't seen him or really heard from him in 7weeks...he's not all that excited about you anymore.  You're no longer his priority and he may just be stringing you along as a "back up" to someone who IS a priority to him.  If he's serious about you or you are his priority in any way, he will MAKE TIME to see you or talk to you.  If you're not a priority to him, he won't really give a crap about how often he sees you or talks to you just so long as he knows he still has you as an option open for availability.  When a man is interested in you, there should be no question in your mind about it...period. If there's something that comes up and he can't make it over to see you, he should have the common decency to call and let you know and apologize to you and possibly make other plans with you later on.  He may be your boyfriend in your eyes, but you're definitely not his girlfriend in his. 

Quoting Keela222:

Ok so my boyfriend has been acting different for the past month and 3weeks now....we dont talk much any more we dont text or anything....I havent even seen him all this time....I have a feeling he cheating on me....I asked him was he but he always say no....he tell me he going to come over but he never does....he told me he was going to  come over after he got off work....but he never ded come over....he had me all happy and everything today for him to come over but he didnt even show up....I called him, texted him and everything....I'm worried something may have happened to him to him....but because he has been doing this to me for the past month and 3 weeks now....I'm just mad....I had broken up with him on mothers day....but we got back together two hours later....he had said he was going to do right and go back to giving me time with him and all that....but this is making me feel like I made a big mistake by even taking him back....I'm not cheating on him but I'm friends with this one guy....he is really nice to me....he know I'm in a relationship so he doesnt try anything....we dont even spend time together....but what do you think I should do about my boyfriend?...do you think I should end it again and just be done with him and move on to the nice guy?...or should I try to make it work with the boyfriend again?

Move on .  For me there is too much shadiness here.  Either cheating, into some illegal activities or has buddies that are keeping him too busy for a girlfriend

Quoting GCM:

 Ok, from working with 80+ other guys in my shop for 10+ years here's what I can tell you.  If you haven't seen him or really heard from him in 7weeks...he's not all that excited about you anymore.  You're no longer his priority and he may just be stringing you along as a "back up" to someone who IS a priority to him.  If he's serious about you or you are his priority in any way, he will MAKE TIME to see you or talk to you.  If you're not a priority to him, he won't really give a crap about how often he sees you or talks to you just so long as he knows he still has you as an option open for availability.  When a man is interested in you, there should be no question in your mind about it...period. If there's something that comes up and he can't make it over to see you, he should have the common decency to call and let you know and apologize to you and possibly make other plans with you later on.  He may be your boyfriend in your eyes, but you're definitely not his girlfriend in his. 

Wow I feel like I'm really wasting my time on him now..

I know that isn't what you want to hear, but you deserve someone who puts you first.

Quoting Keela222:

Quoting kaysha:

A relationship takes two. Sounds like you are the only one trying. I would move on.

Thanks..

Quoting frndlyfn:

 

Quoting Keela222:

Ok so my boyfriend has been acting different for the past month and 3weeks now....we dont talk much any more we dont text or anything....I havent even seen him all this time....I have a feeling he cheating on me....I asked him was he but he always say no....he tell me he going to come over but he never does....he told me he was going to  come over after he got off work....but he never ded come over....he had me all happy and everything today for him to come over but he didnt even show up....I called him, texted him and everything....I'm worried something may have happened to him to him....but because he has been doing this to me for the past month and 3 weeks now....I'm just mad....I had broken up with him on mothers day....but we got back together two hours later....he had said he was going to do right and go back to giving me time with him and all that....but this is making me feel like I made a big mistake by even taking him back....I'm not cheating on him but I'm friends with this one guy....he is really nice to me....he know I'm in a relationship so he doesnt try anything....we dont even spend time together....but what do you think I should do about my boyfriend?...do you think I should end it again and just be done with him and move on to the nice guy?...or should I try to make it work with the boyfriend again?

Move on .  For me there is too much shadiness here.  Either cheating, into some illegal activities or has buddies that are keeping him too busy for a girlfriend

Ok thanks..

Quoting kaysha:

I know that isn't what you want to hear, but you deserve someone who puts you first.

Quoting Keela222:

 

Quoting kaysha:

A relationship takes two. Sounds like you are the only one trying. I would move on.

Thanks..

No I didnt but your right I do deserve better..

Ever read the book "he's just not that into you"?? Every classic sign as you describe. Sorry Hun, but remember you deserve someone who will make you a priority!