parents threatening to call cops and social services
My boyfriend is on the sex offender registry for sexual battery on a 16 year old and my parents are threatening to call the cops and social services on me.
My boyfriend did not do anything, he took in a 16 year old girl a few years back because her mother did not want her. He worked with the girls grandfather and he asked him if she could stay with him for a while. My boyfriend said yes and had the girl for 3 months and during those 3 months she made his and his families life a living hell. She refused to go to school, was stealing, popping pills, disappearing days at a time, causing trouble with his kids, etc. He finally had enough and was able to finally get the mom to take her but 3 days later she was calling wanting to come back and he told her no that he gave her many chances to change and she wouldn't. A few weeks went by abd he had cops at his house saying this girl accused him of doing stuff but it was not only him that she accused. She accused her stepdad, grandfather, my boyfriends girlfriend at the time and some other guy.
The grandfather and my boyfriends gf just dealt with a judge and he threw it out but my boyfriend and the stepdad were going top go before a jury, we live in a very small town so his lawyer explained to him there was a good chance of people being on the jury she new which could result in an unfair ruling and all it took was one person to sya he was guilty so he was afraid and went with a plea. He only has to stay registered another 2 years and at the time he took the plea he did not know he had to register.
He is allowed on school property, he even has custody of all 3 of his boys and has fostered kids. We live in a very small town and he grew up here and I have had loads of people tell me he did not do what he was accused of, the girl that accused him is currently in jail on drug charges and claimed a few months back she was raped.
I have had people try to talk to my mom but she does not want to hear it and last nite I heard she wanted to call the police and social services on me and now I am terrified that she really is going to do it. Is is possible for them to take my son because of my boyfriend?
I would never put my son in harms way and I have known my boyfriend for 2 years. I am best friends with his two nephews that are around my age which is how we met
Quoting Mommy2justone:
He would not be allowed to foster kids if he was on the sex offenders list. I call BS.
I don't know the laws in the state you live in, but I am hoping that they do a home visit and see that everything is fine.
Quoting connietrrll:Let me tell you a true story!
I was 16. I caught they eye of a guy that was 8 years older then me. He always told me how mature I looked. Gave me every line of bull you have already heard. When, at 19 I became pregnant, I started to see things that scared me. But, I left them on the back burner because it couldn't be true. Everything people told me had to be a lie.
I found out a year after I had my son, that he had another son with the same name! That the girl he got pregnant "lied". His parents had DNA tests done, and the family some how forged them. She was 16 when he got her pregnant. Her parents brought up charges against him, but this was long before they had lists. After she turned 18 the charges disappeared!
After 3 more years of his lies, manipulation I left him, with bruises all up my back. Not because I was leaving him, but because I was taking his son! So, I thought. He had 2 very short term girlfriends afterward. But that was it.
In November of 1999 my sons grandmother called me. She said I found something at Jeff's house. I do not want you to leave Matthew alone with him again, and I will figure out what to do with what I found. She never had time. She died in her sleep on January 21st, 2000! In April of 2000 I recieved a phone call from my sons aunt. She said there are cops swarming all over Jeff's house.
After they finished at his house, they came to mine! They brought a whole stack of pictures! They were pictures mostly of my son. Ones that I had never seen before. That is because they made stills out of the videos he took while having sex with my son from the ages of less then a year (while I was still with him) till he was 12! There were also pictures of the majority of my sons friends.
He was to be charged with 107 counts of child pornography. After he was sentenced for that he would stand trial for the crimes he committed against my son! He was supposed to go to court for sentencing on January 20th, 2001. Instead he took his own life.
Now my son is 26 years old and has to live with the fact that his father killed himself one day before my son was going to visit his grandmothers grave, on the one year anniversary of her death. He also has to live with what his dad did to him, and his friends, for years! He has to live with everyone watching to make sure he does not have the same tendencies as his father.
You think this man is innocent? You are crazy! Everyone justifies what they do and why they do it. If you really want him in your house, NEVER leave your kids alone with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quoting momto3intexas:
This
Quoting Mommy2justone:
He would not be allowed to foster kids if he was on the sex offenders list. I call BS.
A question for those who have kids close in age..
When was your due date and when did you give birth?
- Chrissy_Lynn
on May. 30, 2012 at 11:14 AM